11/12/2026
We worked with a dog six years ago who wouldn't get into the car. 🐾
Not wouldn't — couldn't. The second you opened the door, they'd freeze. You could lift them toward the seat and they'd lock every muscle. Treats didn't work. Coaxing didn't work. It wasn't defiance — it was fear, the kind that shuts the whole system down.
So we started over. We rewarded them for standing near the car. Then for putting one paw on the running board. Then two. We didn't ask for the full behavior until every piece of it felt safe. It took three weeks before they hopped in on their own — and when they finally did, you could see the shift. They weren't being brave. They just weren't afraid anymore.
That dog rides everywhere now. Errands, road trips, the whole thing. But the lesson stuck with us: sometimes the behavior that looks like stubbornness is just a dog who needs the steps broken down smaller than you thought. Meet them there, and they'll meet you back.