07/22/2026
Oliver š¤
Oli, Mr.Hissy, Beautiful Boy
I have been sitting Oliver on occasion since 2025.
He loves no human except for his mom.
Oliver had a lot going on with his health sometimes, when his mom would work extra long days, I would stop in to serve him his lunch.
Over 1 year into visiting Oliver, he was still hissy and wanted his space. So, of course, I respected that.
A cat needs to build trust in you. And, the only way that can happen is of you respect their boundaries.
Little by little, Oliver would work his way to being comfortable with me in the same room as him.
Iād offer play from a distance so he would come on his own timeline. He never did. And, really, that is okay!
But! On my last visit with Oli, he actually came up to me. Smelled my hand and my phone as I took his photos and I was able to ever so slightly pet him. He then walked away hissing, but stayed in the same room as me.
I was so happy that Oliver had taken a small leap. As was his mom.
Oliverās mom let me know 2 weeks ago that her Oli had been diagnosed with pancreatic cancer and only been given 4-6 more months.
Sadly, things took a turn and Oliver had to be assisted to cross the Rainbow Bridge just 11 days after I was told.
This is the hardest part of this careerā¦The losses.
I get attached to these souls too. Not just my own cats, but yours too.
May this Beautiful Boy rest well as he waits for his mom over the rainbow bridge.