20/10/2026
🐾 𝙱𝙴 𝚈𝙾𝚄𝚁 𝙳𝙾𝙶’𝚂 𝙰𝙳𝚅𝙾𝙲𝙰𝚃𝙴. 𝙴𝚅𝙴𝙽 𝚆𝙷𝙴𝙽 𝙸𝚃 𝙼𝙴𝙰𝙽𝚂 𝚂𝙰𝚈𝙸𝙽𝙶 𝙽𝙾. 🐾
💁🏼Your dog cannot politely tell a stranger, “Please don’t touch me.”
💁🏼They cannot explain to an approaching dog owner, “I’m uncomfortable with your dog running into my personal space.”
💁🏼They cannot say, “I’m feeling overwhelmed today, and I really need some distance.”
➡️Well, actually, they CAN communicate all of those things. Just not in human language.
✅They communicate through their body language, their movements, their facial expressions, their attempts to move away, their hesitation, their avoidance and sometimes, when those quieter signals haven’t worked, through growling, barking or lunging.
And this is where YOU come in.
💯As your dog’s guardian, one of your most important responsibilities is to advocate for them.
⚠️That means recognising when your dog is uncomfortable and stepping in BEFORE they feel they have no other option but to react.
💛 When a stranger asks to pet your dog, you can say NO.
You don’t owe anyone an explanation.
Let me repeat that - 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐃𝐎𝐍’𝐓 𝐎𝐖𝐄 𝐓𝐇𝐄𝐌 𝐀𝐍𝐘 𝐄𝐗𝐏𝐋𝐀𝐍𝐀𝐓𝐈𝐎𝐍.
🐕Your dog isn’t public property, and nobody is entitled to touch them simply because they think they’re cute.
💛 When someone allows their off-lead dog to charge towards yours, you can say NO.
It doesn’t matter if they shout, “Don’t worry, he’s friendly!” … 𝐼’𝑣𝑒 𝑙𝑜𝑠𝑡 𝑚𝑦 𝑐𝑜𝑜𝑙 𝑜𝑣𝑒𝑟 𝑡ℎ𝑖𝑠 𝑜𝑛𝑒 𝑚𝑎𝑛𝑦 𝑡𝑖𝑚𝑒𝑠 🤦♀️
➡️Your dog might not be comfortable with unfamiliar dogs. They might be frightened, recovering from an injury, elderly, in training, or simply uninterested in interacting.
And here’s something people really need to understand:
⚠️Another dog’s friendliness does not override your dog’s right to personal space.
💛 When someone insists that your nervous dog just needs to ‘get used to people’, you can say NO.
Forcing interactions doesn’t automatically create confidence. In fact, repeatedly putting a dog in situations where they feel trapped, frightened or overwhelmed can make things considerably worse.
💛 When your dog wants to walk away from an interaction, LET THEM.
🩵They don’t need to greet every dog.
🩵They don’t need to accept attention from every person.
🩵They don’t need to tolerate strangers leaning over them, reaching towards their faces or invading their space.
🩵And they certainly don’t need to be pushed into uncomfortable situations just to satisfy someone else’s expectations.
𝑯𝒆𝒓𝒆’𝒔 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒂𝒃𝒐𝒖𝒕 𝒂𝒅𝒗𝒐𝒄𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒅𝒐𝒈.
ꨄEvery time you notice their discomfort and respond appropriately, you’re teaching them something incredibly valuable.
ꨄYou’re showing them that their communication matters.
ꨄThat they have choices.
ꨄThat moving away is an option.
ꨄThat they don’t have to escalate their behaviour to be heard.
ꨄAnd, importantly, that you are someone they can rely on to help them feel safe.
❤︎︎This is particularly important for nervous, anxious and reactive dogs.
♥︎Imagine how different the world might feel to a dog who no longer has to constantly worry about unwanted interactions because their human is paying attention and helping them navigate those situations.
Now, advocating doesn’t mean wrapping your dog in cotton wool or avoiding every challenge. It means creating opportunities for positive experiences, at a pace your dog can cope with, while respecting their individual needs and boundaries.
And sometimes, that means being prepared to make another human uncomfortable so that your dog doesn’t have to be.
꥟You might be called rude.
꥟You might be told you’re overprotective.
꥟You might hear, “Oh, but all dogs love me!”
꥟You might even be told that you’re making your dog antisocial.
꥟Let them think whatever they want.
🙌Because your responsibility isn’t to protect a stranger’s feelings at the expense of your dog’s emotional wellbeing.
🙌Your responsibility is to the animal who depends on you to make good decisions on their behalf.
And remember, this isn’t just about reactive or nervous dogs.
Even the friendliest, most sociable dog in the world has the right to say, “Not today.”
🐾 Be their voice when people aren’t listening to their body language.
🐾 Be their space when the world gets too close.
🐾 Be their advocate when their boundaries aren’t being respected.
𝚂𝚊𝚢𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝙽𝙾 𝚍𝚘𝚎𝚜𝚗’𝚝 𝚖𝚊𝚔𝚎 𝚢𝚘𝚞 𝚊 𝚍𝚒𝚏𝚏𝚒𝚌𝚞𝚕𝚝 𝚍𝚘𝚐 𝚘𝚠𝚗𝚎𝚛. 𝙸𝚝 𝚖𝚊𝚔𝚎𝚜 𝚢𝚘𝚞 𝚊 𝚛𝚎𝚜𝚙𝚘𝚗𝚜𝚒𝚋𝚕𝚎 𝚘𝚗𝚎.
❤️ Your dog doesn’t need you to make everyone else happy. They need you to have their back.