23/08/2026
Sometimes the goal isn’t to get the horse over the obstacle, it’s to help them become confident enough that the obstacle is no longer a big deal.
During this lesson, Anjo was worried about the tarp on the ground. Instead of immediately asking him to walk over it, we broke the exercise down.
First, we simply wanted him to be able to look at the tarp without feeling the need to run away. From there, we used approach and retreat, giving him the opportunity to investigate, process and build confidence at his own pace.
We then played a quick Friendly Game, kicking some sand onto the tarp so he could experience the unexpected sound without feeling like he needed to escape from it.
Only once we had more relaxation, curiosity and confidence did we turn it into a Squeeze Game, folding the tarp in half and having him walk past it (not over it yet!) and once he was confident i unfolded the trap until it was completely open and finally got him to walk across confidently.
The goal was never just to get his feet over the tarp.
It was to help his mind become confident enough that his feet could follow.
When we stop making the obstacle the goal and start making confidence the goal, we give the horse an opportunity to actually learn rather than simply survive the experience.
Confidence first. The task comes afterwards.