23/09/2026
…is believing that socialisation means letting their puppy play with as many dogs as possible.
It doesn’t.
Good socialisation is about creating positive, appropriate and manageable experiences.
Here’s a simple example.
Your puppy sees another dog.
Instead of immediately allowing them to rush over:
👀 They notice the dog.
🍗 You reinforce calm observation.
🐾 You allow an appropriate interaction if the situation is suitable.
↩️ You create opportunities for your puppy to disengage.
🎉 You reinforce calm behaviour.
Now your puppy is learning something much more useful:
“I can be around dogs without becoming completely overwhelmed by them.”
This builds social flexibility.
And that becomes extremely valuable as your puppy grows.
You want a dog that can play appropriately and walk past another dog without demanding an interaction.
A dog that can engage and disengage.
A dog that can be excited and settle.
That’s the real objective of socialisation.
Don’t just expose your puppy to the world. Teach them how to navigate it.
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