10/13/2026
The Best Way to Approach a Breeder
If you’re interested in purchasing a puppy from a reputable breeder, the first step is simple: introduce yourself and ask about their process for placing puppies in homes.
The endless messages that simply say “How much?” are becoming overwhelming. No greeting, no introduction, no question mark, and no effort to look at the breeder’s profile or website to learn about their dogs, program, or practices.
Breeders receive countless inquiries from people who appear to be casually shopping around without any real intention of moving forward. Over time, many breeders become less likely to respond to these types of messages because they simply don’t have the time to answer every low-effort inquiry.
And when someone doesn’t receive a response, they may turn around and criticize the breeder, saying, “I couldn’t even get a response from them!”
Here’s the thing: first impressions matter. Breeders are investing their time, knowledge, money, and heart into producing healthy, well-bred puppies. They care deeply about where their puppies end up and want to find the right homes for them.
Take a few minutes to introduce yourself, express genuine interest, and ask thoughtful questions. Read the information the breeder has already provided, and approach the conversation with courtesy and respect.
Think of it more like a job interview than ordering a Big Mac at a drive-through. You’re not just purchasing a product; you’re building a relationship with someone who has devoted themselves to their dogs and their future.
A little courtesy goes a long way. You may be surprised at how much more receptive a breeder is when you approach them with genuine interest and good manners.