08/18/2025
But did you Q?
A few years ago I was talking to a student about taking the E to support their dog. Our discussion was mostly about as soon as they felt their dog was disconnected to immediately go pet their dog and physically reconnect with them.
Touching your dog during a course will get you eliminated every time in agility. It's unfortunate because I think for a lot of teams, a physical reconnect, a supportive hand on your dog, a grounding, is an incredibly important tool to use, especially in a difficult environment like a trial. But that's for another stream of consciousness at another time.
The bottom line was a decision to physically touch your dog in the middle of a run at a trial will get you eliminated, and you lose all hopes of being able to qualify on that run.
My feeling was I'd rather a happy E than a rough Q, but the point they made to me was that it was easier for me to say that because I was coming from a position of qualifying on a lot of runs.
That was valid.
Gram has always been an amazing teammate and we've had a lot of success so that could have skewed my perception. But I said that I hope that in the future, when I'm in a position where I'm not qualifying very much that I still feel the same.
Well, that time came with a vengeance. Three weeks, two venues, two states, nearly 2500 miles and so much gas, and I think between all of them, maybe 5 Qs?
Coming from a teammate like Gram there is a part of me that feels maybe incompetent? Inadequate for sure, sometimes frustrated and certainly humbled running the baby fools. But I'm also very lucky. I'm lucky they physically and mentally can handle it. I'm lucky they seem to love the game. I'm lucky they keep trying even when I fail them.
And I'm thankful to take the E. Sooo sooo many of them.