04/26/2026
This is a followāup to my last post about puppy biting.
A lot of different methods get suggested for stopping mouthing, so I want to clarify what I use in my training methods ā and why I choose not to use certain techniques. This isnāt about criticizing other trainers. Itās simply about the approach that aligns with my philosophy and supports longāterm behavior and emotional stability in the dogs I work with.
Iām a balanced trainer who uses a high amount of positive reinforcement, paired with structure, boundaries, and fair consequences. Iām not āpositive only,ā but I also donāt use techniques that create conflict, increase arousal, or interfere with a dogās ability to trust hands.
Some commonly suggested methods ā like lipāpinching (āpop the grapeā), scruff shaking, or pushing a hand deeper into the puppyās mouth ā arenāt part of my program. Not because I avoid corrections, but because of what these techniques tend to do to a puppyās nervous system:
Why I donāt use those methods:
- They increase arousal instead of reducing it.
Puppies mouth most when theyāre overstimulated. Pain, surprise, or physical restraint spikes adrenaline, which often makes the behavior stronger.
- They create conflict around hands.
Puppies learn through association. If hands repeatedly cause discomfort, you can end up with avoidance, defensiveness, or a dog that becomes more frantic when touched.
- They donāt teach impulse control.
These techniques interrupt the moment, but they donāt build the puppyās ability to pause, think, or regulate ā which is the actual root of mouthing issues.
- They can trigger panic or defensive reactions.
Especially methods involving the mouth or throat. A correction should give information, not create fear.
These reasons have nothing to do with being āpositive only.ā Theyāre about clarity, communication, and longāterm behavior.
Hereās what I do focus on:
⢠Highāvalue reinforcement for calm, thoughtful behavior
Rewarding soft mouth, choosing a toy, sitting for attention, and selfāsettling. Reinforcement builds the behaviors I want repeated.
⢠Impulseācontrol and regulation training
Short, structured exercises like sit ā release, hand target, āwait,ā and place work. These build the puppyās ability to pause and regulate excitement.
⢠Ensuring appropriate sleep
Most puppies need 16ā18 hours of sleep in 24 hours. Overtired puppies mouth more, settle less, and escalate faster.
⢠Crate or pen time as proactive regulation
Used predictably, not punitively. A quiet space with a chew or stuffed Kong helps the puppy decompress before they hit an overāaroused state.
⢠Managing arousal before it spikes
Shorter play sessions, more sniffing, calmer activities, and avoiding rough play that pushes the puppy over threshold.
⢠Fair, calm consequences
If mouthing gets too hard, I use simple, consistent consequences like briefly ending the interaction. No yelling, no physical conflict ā just clarity and patterning.
Balanced training isnāt about avoiding corrections or relying only on rewards.
Itās about using the right tools at the right time, teaching the puppy how to regulate, and building behavior through clarity, structure, and reinforcement.