Happy Hearts Horsemanship

Happy Hearts Horsemanship Mindful horsemanship with a focus on training for soundness and building confidence in the horse/human partnership

Before and after implementing my Equine Track System.The first photo was one of my pastures 4 years ago. 3 years, ago I ...
06/03/2026

Before and after implementing my Equine Track System.

The first photo was one of my pastures 4 years ago. 3 years, ago I implemented my track system and a composting system for my poo. Instead of creating a giant manure pile that I would have to pay someone to remove, I started composting it and then spreading it back onto my land. I let the pastures rest and I stopped allowing the horses to over graze them. Instead they get very strict access to the grass and its never grazed down short. Every summer I have the pastures brush hogged and then they rest again till late spring when the grass is at the optimum height again.

I have not applied any pesticides nor have I done any overseeding asside from some hay sweepings spread out from the barn. I have weeds, but every year, as the land improves, they get less and less as the grass becomes healthier. The hope is that eventually the grass will overwhelm most of the weeds. Weeds can tell us alot about how the soils is doing and some weeds are good weeds.

Today I counted 10 different varieties of grass which is a great sign of good soil health. Offering different varieties of grass for our horses often times provides a more balanced diet than 1 variety alone. I would love to turn it into hay someday.

06/01/2026

5 things I avoid with horses that can be controversial 🐎

1. I don't ride baby horses. I wait till they are at least 3, better off 4, before I ever get on them. At 2, they may feel the weight of a saddle on their back. Their spines don't finish developing until at least age 6. We need to stop competitively riding and racing 2-3 years old. These horses are more likely to breakdown by the age of 8-10. I prefer to train my horses for longevity.

2. I don't lunge my horses to "get the bucks out" or to tire them out before I get on. Whatever is repeated strengthens the movement, whether its good movement or bad. I dont want my horses strengthening the muscles it takes to buck or bolt. Instead I focus on their rhythm and balance. I use groundwork to teach them how to use both sides of their bodies equally and how to use their bodies is a way that is beneficial for carrying the weight of a saddle and rider.

3. I dont feed my horses any commercially bagged feeds. I beleive in forage based nutrition, testing hay and balancing their vitamins and minerals based off the analysis. Horses should have access to forage 24/7 and shouldnt be fed meals just twice a day. This can result in unnecessary stress, ulcers, food aggression or guarding behaviors.

4. I don't use nose bands with flashes that hold the horses mouth shut. Nose bands can restrict normal jaw movement, increase stress and discomfort, cause pressure on sensitive facial structures, nerves, and soft tissues and prevent horses from displaying behaviors that indicate discomfort, such as opening the mouth, crossing the jaw, or moving the tongue.

5. I dont use side reins, draw reins, lunging systems, martingales etc. Any equipment that forces a horse into a position should be thrown in the trash. These devices develop a false frame. A frame that is forced before the horse is able to engage and carry himself is worth nothing. A correct frame is the END RESULT of years of proper training up the scale of collection, it is not the path to collection. Period.

To the unsolicited advice givers. 💣This is something I have been guilty of. I've learned the hard way time and time agai...
05/29/2026

To the unsolicited advice givers. 💣

This is something I have been guilty of. I've learned the hard way time and time again. Unsolicited advice often sounds like help… but lands like judgment.

Most people aren’t looking for someone to fix them. They’re looking to feel heard, understood, and safe enough to figure things out for themselves. When we rush to give advice before someone asks for it, we unintentionally send messages like:

“You’re doing it wrong.”
“I know better than you.”
“You should be handling this differently.”

Even with good intentions, unsolicited advice can create distance instead of connection.

So when is the best time to offer advice?
After understanding, after listening, after permission.

Sometimes the most powerful response isn’t: “Here’s what you should do.”
It’s:“Do you want advice, or do you just need someone to listen right now?” That question alone can change relationships.

So the next time you feel like offering advice when its not asked for. Take a few moments to think about how this person may respond when offering advice. Are they ready to hear it, is it worth saying anyways? Will they be in a position to hear you and take in the advice?

Thank you for listening to my Ted talk. 🥸

Post Op follow up ✨️I'm 2 weeks post op and my follow up with the surgeon went great. I have some new fancy hardware now...
05/27/2026

Post Op follow up ✨️

I'm 2 weeks post op and my follow up with the surgeon went great. I have some new fancy hardware now. He says I'm a rock star healer. Everything is looking great and I'm right on track. He says no more brace! In 4 weeks I'll be feeling alot stronger and should be able to handle my farm chores which is so important. He also feels confident that I can start riding again in 3-4 months!

That being said, I've decided to postpone any training horses for the remainder of the year and just focus on horsemanship lessons for now. I will be offering more beginner riding lessons for kids ages 5-9 on Chip when I'm feeling stronger. For now it's still a go to do Tiny Tots classes Wednesdays starting June 17th with some help for the pony ride portion.

Sadly I will not be able to participate in the clinics I was planning on attending this summer including the Brent Graef clinic on Camano Island July 31st thru August 2nd.😢 Which means my spot is up for grabs!! Let me know if you want it before we put the word out. It will be snatched up fast!

Thank you for all the healing vibes! Keep sending them my way! It's working 💪

05/23/2026

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Day 5 Post Op - Finally seeing some light at the end of this long dark tunnel ⚫️🌄The first few days after the surgery ha...
05/19/2026

Day 5 Post Op - Finally seeing some light at the end of this long dark tunnel ⚫️🌄

The first few days after the surgery have been rough, not gonna lie. I'm happy to report that I'm feeling alot better today. I even got to take a shower and it went much better than I expected. I still have a ton of healing to do but I'm feeling thankful for having the energy and ability to accomplish this task without being in excruciating pain.

I even ventured onto our porch to capture our beautiful wisteria in bloom! 🌸 Speaking of blooming, my leg bruising sure has taken off. A sure sign of healing. The swelling isn't too bad either. 🤕

I have my first post op PT appointment scheduled for tomorrow. If you asked me 2 days ago, I would have said that I'm skipping it. Looks like I'll be up for the torture after all 😅

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Surgery today was successful. I'm home and definitely feeling very painful but I have a whole care team doing an amazing...
05/14/2026

Surgery today was successful. I'm home and definitely feeling very painful but I have a whole care team doing an amazing job to make me feel as comfortable as I can be. Now the road to recovery can truly begin. 🤕🙏✨️🐎

Happy Mother’s Day to all the incredible moms out there — the horse moms, barn moms, bonus moms, grandmas, and every wom...
05/10/2026

Happy Mother’s Day to all the incredible moms out there — the horse moms, barn moms, bonus moms, grandmas, and every woman who shows up with love, patience, and strength every single day. 💐

To the moms spending their days juggling kids, horses, chores, lessons, work, and everything in between — we see you. Motherhood and horsemanship share so much in common: dedication, resilience, compassion, and heart.

Wishing you a beautiful day filled with love, laughter, and maybe even a little barn time. ❤️🐎

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