09/02/2026
Yesterday I jokingly came on here to give you guys a Birdie update… that there was no Birdie update😂 And your responses completely changed my perspective.
So many of you said, “but that IS an update”🥲 Because nothing changing means nothing has gotten worse. There’s no new bad news. Our girl is still okay, still being loved and cared for, and exactly where she needs to be❤️🩹
I know you’re waiting, worrying and rooting for her from all over the freaking world🌎🫶🏼 and I totally agree, sometimes no news is really freaking GOOD news!
And I wanted to address a few questions we keep getting… Why aren’t we visiting? Birdie gets SO excited when she sees us😂 and right now she needs to stay as calm, still and clean as possible. As badly as we want to see her, if our presence makes healing harder, what Birdie NEEDS will always come before what we want! I’m confident she knows we love her just like I truly believe she knows you do too💕
Why does she keep getting infections? She doesn’t! There was one infection that thankfully cleared quickly. This one freaking tail incision is not infected, it simply does not want to close. The tissue looks healthy and last week’s procedure went exactly as hoped… now we WAIT and give her body time to respond.
Do we regret amputating her tail? Knowing how it’s going NOW? Of course we wish we hadn’t done it. That doesn’t mean it was a bad decision when we made it. It wasn’t. There was thought and purpose behind it, and we made that decision with her medical team.
But hindsight gives you information you didn’t have before. Knowing now that this incision is what’s keeping her from getting back to living her life?! Of course I wish I could go back in time. But life doesn’t let you remake yesterday’s decisions using today’s information.
And that’s why I think sharing this part matters too. If something we learned the hard way gives another family more information to bring to their own dog’s medical team, then something good can come from it!
For now, we wait. And today, waiting without bad news IS good news🕊️