10/08/2026
Confidence vs. Arogance. Easily misunderstood⬇️
Confidence comes from knowing who you are. Arrogance comes from a need for external validation to fill a void.
Figure out that void and walk in what God has planned for your life? That’s confidence on display🙌🏻
I was previously a college athlete who needed to be the best of the best. If I had a bad game I would beat myself up, I felt worthless until I had the chance to be on-top of the stat sheet. I turned down professional offers to follow my true passion and open up H&H.
Little did I know at the time; that same void secretly followed me. While building the ranch I fell in love and got married! I wanted to be the best wife I could be (seeking again validation), and wondering why things were going wrong... I turned to my ranch where applause was coming from. Did it succeed? Absolutely. Until my marriage fell apart for good.
I had to look in the mirror, and take the steps to be better. It’s hard work that doesn’t stop until the day that I die…. Every morning I pickup my cross and get right with God. Does that mean mistakes still get made, that hard times still come? Absolutely, but I can now attest to a good father’s love and grace that is available to all🤍
Wanna know the cool part after going through everything in my life (so far)? I can now show others via social media and future stages, the blueprint to a great life:
Know who you are in Christ Jesus (regardless of your accomplishments), love Him, love others, and walk confidently in the plan He has for you. Pivot when He asks you to pivot, pause in a season when He asks you to pause. His direction is the best direction; I can promise you that.
Back to the video: “Guess who is showing up at the race?” I previously bought the charter, my heart would skip a beat when I met world champs…. Now? I can respect their accolades, acknowledge the accomplishments, and stay focused; knowing my own strengths/weaknesses and where this is headed.
Who shows up becomes truly irrelevant when it’s you vs. you. Thats confidence, not arrogance.