08/31/2026
Definitely worth sharing!
We have shared this before but as we look at all the adult dogs we have been helping, it is worth a repeat.
Key “Threes” for Adopting an Adult Dog
Imagine welcoming a foreign exchange student into your house. How would you expect them to act for the first few days? How long until they felt totally at home? Adopting an adult dog is not unlike welcoming someone from a totally different culture into your home. Adult dogs are different than puppies (though there are challenges there as well), and it will take time for them to feel at home and a part of the family. In the rescue world, we like to tell people it takes three days for the dog to decompress; three weeks to get into a new routine; and three months for them to feel completely at home.
The First Three Days:
Your dog might be overwhelmed by their new surroundings. They might seem anxious, have a few accidents, and maybe even get into a scuffle with other pets. Rest assured: this is normal. They’re just trying to figure out their new home, especially with other animals at home. Even if the meet-and-greet went well, take things slowly with animal roommates. You should keep your existing pet’s routine unchanged. Reward your new pet every time they come to you, when they go potty outside, and when they use their kennel. Treats are your friend. Use a happy voice to praise your dog. Introduce your dog to strangers slowly. If the dog is frightened, give your visitors high-value treats to offer the dog. It’s okay if your pet wants to stay away or in their kennel when new people come by.
After Three Weeks:
Your dog will start to feel more comfortable and settled in their new home. Your dog will have gotten used to more of a regular routine. They will understand when their meals will be given, when they'll be going for a walk, and when they'll get potty breaks. It is important to keep them in a routine. Keep rewarding them with treats and praise when they’re doing the right thing, but you may be able to space out rewards more-and-more as they learn your expectations.
After Three Months:
Your dog should be feeling completely at home and a part of the family. They will find continued comfort in their routine and a sense of security when they are around you and your family.
Throughout this time and beyond, keep in mind that all dogs benefit from formal training. We recommend training that uses positive-reinforcement, and luckily, there are many great trainers who do just this in our area. Research also strongly suggests this is the most effective form of training over the long term. Training is also a great way to bond with your dog and show them that the two of you are a team.
Finally, don’t be surprised if your dog has certain quirks you weren’t expecting or doesn’t immediately look or act like the “perfect dog” you imagined adopting. Quirks and all, this dog is yours. Who knows, those quirks may quickly become your favorite part of your pet’s personality! Remember that many of our dogs had a rough start in life, through no fault of their own. However, with your patience, compassion, and dedication, they will become another member of the family. If you use these tools, your dog will offer their loyalty and steadfast love in return. You are the center of your dog’s universe, their rescuer, and best friend. It might not happen overnight, but the wags are worth the wait.
* credit, Moira Moynihan, Paws and Claws Newsletter 2025