04/30/2026
Toddlers and dogs have pretty similar brains. In fact most dogs are about as smart as a 2 yr old. And my two year old is doing her best to keep my trainer brain sharp while I home on leave! So all these apply to your dogs or kids… but I’m not certified to advise on the two leggers 😉
1) catch them being good and reward it!
Call it out 📣 Give it attention ❤️
If bad behavior gets more attention then good, you’ll get more bad behavior. On the same note, ignore minor/harmless unwanted behaviors. Attention is valuable and behaviors that get attention are likely to be repeated!
2) they need exercise, no behavior training works without proper exercise! A dog or toddler without enough exercise is not fun. Start with exercise. 🚶♀️🏃♂️🏃♀️🏃♀️
3) enrichment, mental stimulation is a foundation for any training. It’s not optional. 📚🌳
4) 🛑don’t repeat yourself, it’s frustrating and useless. Only ask for things you are ready to help them execute. They’re not capable of being help accountable, their prefrontal cortex isn’t developed to the level ours is so help them be successful after your first ask and you’ll get better outcomes on your first request soon! ☝️
5) play builds bonds and is an important tool for learning! 🛝⛹️♀️Don’t overlook it! For dogs it can teach drop it, impulse control, settle & sharper listening! 👂
6) they are doing their best, we are the caregivers and should be helping them be successful! If they’re struggling we should make environmental changes to help make them successful and build from there.
7) punishment feel good for a minute but they and just reinforcement to the punisher, they’re not effective teaching tools. 📏
8) management is important! The more a behavior is practiced the better it gets! Prevention is best! Use gates, leashes, other enclosures or just distance to help avoid rehearsals of unwanted behaviors. 💃🕺
9) don’t try to get rid natural behavior, for kids silly play for dogs things like digging or chewing come to mind. These are normal and you should provide outlets for them rather then try to get rid of them. 🐾🦴🐕