07/22/2026
This!
I wonder how many horses spend their whole lives trying to tell us something, and we’re simply looking in the wrong place.
One of the biggest changes in the way I train horses didn’t come from learning another exercise or another technique. It came from changing the questions I was asking.
Years ago, if a horse was leaning on the forehand, hollowing its back, bracing through the neck or constantly rushing, I’d have been looking for a way to stop those things happening. The focus was on improving the behaviour.
Now, I find myself asking something completely different.
What is this horse trying to solve?
Because horses don’t wake up in the morning and decide they’d like to lean on the forehand or make life difficult for their rider. They use the body they have available to them, and if that body isn’t balanced, comfortable or capable of carrying itself efficiently, it will find another way. Sometimes that means leaning. Sometimes it means tension. Sometimes it means speed. Sometimes it means using muscles that were never designed to do the job they’re now doing every single day.
The more horses I work with, the more convinced I become that what we often describe as resistance is simply compensation. It’s a horse doing its very best with the body it currently has.
I sometimes wonder how many horses have spent years being corrected for something that was never really a training issue at all. Not because anyone was unkind, but because nobody had shown their owner what the horse was actually trying to say.
That’s why I think learning to observe is one of the most valuable skills we can develop. Not just watching where the legs go, but understanding why they go there. Not just noticing that the horse is carrying its head high, but asking what made that feel like the safest or easiest option in the first place.
When you start looking at horses like that, it’s very difficult to go back to seeing them in the same way. You stop chasing symptoms and start looking for causes. The whole conversation changes, and with it, the way you train.
For me, that’s where real progress begins. Not when we become better at correcting horses, but when we become better at understanding them.