06/03/2026
One of the hardest things about what I do is having to say goodbye to these lovely beings that I am so privileged to get to know and spend time with. I have always considered it an honor to break through with a challenging pet client.
I first met Gracie and George several years back, and their humans told me that Gracie would be a challenge because she was very opinionated and picky, and boy, was she!
She scrutinized me and judged and guarded.
George was sweet as pie, but Gracie was a taskmaster with a full litmus test set up to make me fail.
She made me feel like the substitute teacher who had to pass an initiation.
This did not bother me, though. I guess in part that she reminded me so much of my first cat, who could be nice to you, only if she deemed you worthy.
Highly intelligent, piercing, and who did not mince words.
After about a year and a half, she accepted me.
Prior to this, she would show momentary affection, but she would stop herself, as if to say, she wasn't going to let her guard down.
I could get near the entryway of the clubhouse, but I still had to go through my initiation rites.
And then one day, for whatever reason, I had passed the test, and she was the most loving, affectionate, and dare I say, fl**zy of a feline! She would follow me around, brush her face on my legs, and engage in lovely little chats, and sometimes she would flop next to me on the couch and give me a wink and a little croak.
One of my favorite characteristics of hers was how, when she wanted something, especially when it was dinnertime, she would pirouette on two feet and let out a little croak.
It is these kinds of breakthroughs that are so rewarding as a stand-in for pet parents. To get that seal of approval and the affection from such a particular cat just makes it all worthwhile.
I am so sorry that Gracie is no longer with her brother George and her parents. I know they miss her so much.
Thank you, Gracie, for allowing me to take care of you, and my heart is with those who loved you most.
Tanner Place will be less radiant without you.