09/24/2026
Itās a common misconception that we should just ālet dogs figure it outā š¤. Allowing dogs to communicate with each other appropriately is absolutely important, but itās also our job to play a role in teaching clear boundaries and how to respect space. That starts with how we let them to move in and out of our space, how we move in and out of their space and how we allow other humans and animals to do the same.
āļø Are we consistent and predictable? Do expectations remain the same regardless of the situation? Is there a clear way for us to invite our dogs into our space as well as get them out? When your dog communicates a reasonable boundary do you respect it? Are other people and dogs allowed to come into their space whenever and wherever and vice versa?
Each dog does not have to be involved in everything and they donāt need to constantly engage with each other either. One should be able to get undivided attention without others trying to take it. They should be able to coexist comfortably, but still be confident doing their own thing. Are some dogs best friends who love to cuddle up and romp together that can communicate in a way that they both understand and respect? Sure! But that doesnāt mean that is every multi dog relationship. The goal is a good relationship where they feel comfortable sharing space and understand boundaries. That starts with us leading them and teaching the appropriate way to respect those things, while trusting us to step in if necessary š«.