06/10/2026
"Your horse needs to be relaxed yet remain powerful"
~Nuno Olivera
Bodhi is now 4, and I saddled him recently for the first time (actually I've saddled him twice).
In my process, once I get them good at the groundwork, I'll them saddle them, then spent time getting them as good at the groundwork WITH the saddle as they are without the saddle.
He was great with the saddling, and moving with the saddle, but I felt he needed to be a little more forward. I went back to groundwork without the saddle the next day and realised that he actually needed more forward in general.
I realised I'd fallen into the trap I often advise people not to fall into, which is "I love him so much, and he's beautiful", and I'd allowed myself to be a bit lax with him because of that.
Normally I do everything on line (so with a halter and lead rope", because as an educator, I want to do things in a way everyone can duplicate. Early on in my "videoing of training" days, a lot of people asked the question "Can I achieve the results you get without a round pen" so I've not been using one for years now (I might do things in mine, but on line, so I'm IN the round pen, but I could be in the middle of a 100 acre pasture).
I decided with Bodhi to just go back to having him turned loose in the round pen, and just work on forward , and maintaining gaits without my help.
Any help.
Because I realised I'd been helping him just a little bit (coz he's just soooo beautiful), and once I really got his mind and body together, he started looking like he does in the picture below.
No, he's never been lunged in side reins.
No, he's never been asked to lower his head.
No, he's never been driven in long reins.
The picture shows a horse with equal amounts of energy and relaxation, just like the Nuno Olivera quote at the beginning of this post.
Because Bodhi has always been such a sensitive and quirky horse, I leaned too much on getting the relaxation good, and not enough getting the powerful, and going forward it's just going to be a matter of balancing the two.
As our amazing friend Confident Rider with Jane Pike says,"There's is no balance, only balancing".