07/27/2026
People always comment on our rescue efforts and how many horses we maintain here at our rescue/sanctuary. They drive up, get out of their cars, and look around slowly while saying...."I don't know how you do it". Doing it is not easy. Doing it is painful. Doing it requires more money and patience than is afforded to us. So let me give you a sneak peek of how we do it......
We do it as we unload scared, emaciated, and sick horses off trailers and give them a pat on the shoulder and allow them to put their weary heads on our chests as they breathe the first sigh of relief that they've felt for a long time.
We do it with every rainy day we drive 45 minutes each way out to the farm my mom helped us buy, that our boarder's rent helps us pay for each month.
We do it with every time we sit with a terrified 13 year old horse who has only known abuse and a harsh and heavy hand, who turns his hind end to us every time we approach him because he is so fearful of having a guest in his living space. Don't mind you he just came from a show barn and is the most damaged horse we have ever had here.
We do it with every fb post we put up asking for help with hay and grain, only to be met with little or no support, and always making sure these horses are fed, vetted, and loved all by ourselves.
We do it by biting our tongue every time someone who has never donated to our cause consistently tags us in fb posts, begging to us to save more and more horses while never contributing to the care of the ones we already have.
We do it by working two or three jobs to support the horses here, because let's face it, once they're "bailed", everyone forgets about them and the fact they still need to eat.
We do it by uncovering the kill pen and rescue scams, the people who promote them and profit off them, and distancing ourselves accordingly
We do it by taking in the most terrible, broken down, ancient, and misbehaving horses available to rescue because no other rescue wants them
We do it by ignoring all the hype and the excited messages of all the people who suddenly "love and want" a pretty show type horse minutes after our rescue takes them in, when they had the opportunity to bail or rescue that horse themself for over two weeks time but they would rather try to defraud the donors of a nonprofit for a free horse rather than pay the $700 plus shipping it would have cost them to buy the horse themself. Yes, we see you. You are shameless and consistent.
We do it by rehabbing these horses, finding a job that suits them, only to adopt them out to someone who refuses to follow the instructions for success that we send with the horse and sends the horse back angry and confused
We do it by taking that horse back and loving him as he is again, and go back to promoting his strengths and giving him confidence
We do it by forgiving the people who dump these horses or do them wrong at any juncture. To err is human, and to forgive; divine
But, it's not all bad. There are things we do that we love as well:
We do it by rehabbing and getting to know every one of the horses we save by inviting them to a safe place where they can relax and become part of a herd. We cheer them on with each milestone and we rejoice in their successes.
We do it by endless horsie hugs, proper vet care, vaccination, quality feed, and farrier care
We do it by offering the horse a spot in our sanctuary if nobody else can see and value their worth
We do it by offering the horses a job and a purpose, however limited it may be.
We do it by placing no expectations on the horse other than it eat the food we give it and enjoy its stay here
We do it by breaking through barriers and sitting for hours with a damaged or shy horse until they learn to accept love we offer them
We do it with the help of a sporadic volunteer or two every once in awhile, because most people don't want to work with problem horses or saddlebreds, and especially not problem saddlebreds.....and appreciate any help we can get. We try to buy them tacos every chance we get.
We do it by making personal sacrifices like skipping horse shows, buying everything second hand, selling personal tack and belongings to make sure the horses eat, or taking extra roofing jobs when nobody will sponsor the horses and ignore our pleas for help with their care.
We do it by missing time with our kids because an elderly horse needs the vet or we get behind at the farm
We do it by letting go of the sick, injured, and elderly horses as they cross the rainbow bridge.
We do it laughing, we do it exasperated, we do it annoyed, we do it crying, and we do it all the time.
We do it struggling. We do it alone. We do it every damn day. We do it with little to no help except for a few consistent friends and supporters. But we do it with LOVE for these horses. Because at the end of the day, all they have is us. We do it for them, and we do it well, because even though they are far from perfect, they deserve it.
Pictured is Moribundo, who is wonderful and has been living here for over 9 years. Photo from 2017