10/01/2026
Sometimes we ask a horse to understand “contact” before we’ve given them enough time to understand what it feels like to carry themselves into it.
I like to think of this process as contact rehab. A reframing and revisiting of the building blocks of connection in a foreign way.
The progression pictured here gives me three different conversations with the horse:
The neck rope
First, we can influence the lift of the neck and sternum without putting pressure on the mouth. It gives the horse an opportunity to organize their posture, access the thoracic sling, and begin responding to postural aids without relying on the reins.
The bitless bridle / sidepull
Once the horse can begin finding that balance, the sidepull introduces a little more familiar directional feeling. The horse can start to understand that reaching forward and down, while maintaining their own balance, can coexist with guidance from the rider.
The bit
The bit is not there to manufacture the frame. Ideally, it is simply another piece of communication that becomes available once the horse understands the basic concept.
And sometimes… the bit is only carried in case things go awry.
The important part for me is that the horse gets the opportunity to find the answer rather than being placed in the answer.
When a horse learns to reach forward with the nose, lengthen through the topline, breathe, and organize their own balance without being held in a particular position, we can eventually build a much more meaningful connection.
Contact should be something the horse seeks, not something we have to manufacture.
Sometimes going back to the simplest version of the question is what allows the horse to finally understand the answer.
If you’re wondering what comes before this, well I’ve been considering doing a series on my process! Stay tuned for some exciting news.