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Built on thoughtful development, correct basics, and sound horsemanship, we focus on patient, educated training that produces confident young horses, successful competition mounts, and riders who understand how to bring out the best in their partners.

I don’t think every horse needs to be your forever horse to be an incredibly important horse.I think sometimes we get ca...
10/21/2026

I don’t think every horse needs to be your forever horse to be an incredibly important horse.

I think sometimes we get caught up in the idea that the ultimate expression of loving a horse is keeping them forever.

And don’t get me wrong, there is something really special about the horses who spend decades with us.

But I also think there’s something really special about the ones who don’t.

Some horses come into our lives, teach us something valuable, and then move on to do the same for someone else.

The horse who helped one rider find their confidence might be exactly the horse another rider needs to find theirs.

And there's something really special about knowing a horse you loved and developed still has so much more to give, even if it isn't with you.

I think sometimes we feel like we need to justify moving on from a horse.

As though deciding to sell one means we didn’t love them enough, didn’t appreciate what they gave us, or somehow failed to make the relationship work.

But horses and people change.

Our goals change. Our circumstances change. Our abilities change. And sometimes the things that made a horse and rider a wonderful match at one point in time simply aren’t the same anymore.

That doesn’t mean the relationship wasn’t valuable.

And it certainly doesn’t mean the horse wasn’t loved.

I think there’s a particular kind of satisfaction in watching a horse you cared about go on to be exactly what someone else was looking for.

To see them loved by another person, accomplishing different things, having new experiences, and continuing to be an important part of someone else’s story.

Of course, selling a horse comes with responsibility. Finding the right situation matters enormously, and not every horse is suited to every home.

But I don’t think we should confuse keeping a horse forever with doing right by them.

Sometimes doing right by a horse means recognizing that someone else can give them a wonderful next chapter.

And sometimes doing right by ourselves means being willing to acknowledge that we’re ready for a different chapter, too.

Not every horse is meant to be your forever horse.

The length of time you own a horse isn’t necessarily a measure of how much that horse mattered.

Sometimes a horse can be a short chapter in your life and still be a really, really important part of your story.
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10/19/2026

We don’t expect our trainers to be experts at trimming and shoeing horses, and we probably wouldn’t ask them to shoe the horse.

So why, as trainers and horse owners, would we expect our farriers to train our horses for us?

Here’s a little video of me working on six-month-old Veri’s feet with a rasp. ❤️

Not because I have any intention of becoming a farrier. 😂

But because I DO have every intention of making sure she knows how to be a good citizen when the farrier comes to visit.

Picking up feet, holding them up for increasingly long periods of time, learning to balance on three legs, getting comfortable with the motion and sound of a rasp, and understanding that a little patience is expected of her.

Those are all things we can practice long before a young horse needs to stand for a proper trim.

And they’re things we can practice in short, low-pressure sessions, where nobody is in a hurry and we can make the experience as positive as possible.

I think sometimes we forget that our farriers have a difficult enough job without also being expected to teach the horse how to behave for it.

Their job is to take care of the feet.

Our job is to prepare the horse to let them.

And while even the best-prepared youngster might have an occasional baby-horse moment, there’s a big difference between a horse who’s imperfect because they’re learning and a horse who’s dangerously not prepared.

Good horsemanship is also about making the jobs of the other professionals who care for our horses easier, safer, and more pleasant.

I am a firm believer that horses should have lives outside of their careers.I love a talented horse. I love developing y...
10/18/2026

I am a firm believer that horses should have lives outside of their careers.

I love a talented horse. I love developing young horses, setting ambitious goals, and seeing what they might be capable of accomplishing.

But I also think it’s important to remember that our horses have absolutely no idea what their résumés say.

They don’t know what their breeding suggests they should be good at. They don’t know what level they’re supposed to reach, what scores they’ve earned, or how much money we’ve invested in their futures.

And I think they deserve lives that are about more than those things.

I want my horses to have friends. I want them to spend time in fields, play, explore, scratch each other’s withers, and occasionally make questionable decisions about which mud puddle looks the most inviting.

I want the young ones to have time to be young. To be a little scraggly. Have a few scrapes on them.

And I want the older ones to have lives where their entire sense of routine doesn’t revolve around being ridden.

Because as much as we love these horses for what they can do, I think we have a responsibility to remember that they are living, feeling, social animals first.

Their athletic careers are something we have chosen for them.

Their need to be horses isn’t.

And I don’t think those two things have to compete with one another.

We can have big ambitions for our horses AND give them lives that are rich in experiences that have absolutely nothing to do with advancing those ambitions.

In fact, I think those things often complement each other beautifully.

I hope the horses in my program become successful athletes. I hope they go on to do wonderful things, make their owners proud, and have long, fulfilling careers.

But I also hope they have horse friends that they love.

That they get to roll in the sunshine.

That they spend plenty of hours doing absolutely nothing sport related. Doing the only things horses were actually designed to do… walk around in groups and eat forage 😆

Because a horse can have an impressive résumé and still be missing some pretty important parts of a good life.

And at the end of the day, I want to be proud of more than what my horses accomplish.

I want to be proud of the lives they get to live 24/7, not just when I’m with them.

Getting to know baby horses is one of my favorite things. No ambitious expectations, or pressure to accomplish anything ...
10/17/2026

Getting to know baby horses is one of my favorite things.

No ambitious expectations, or pressure to accomplish anything in particular. Just spending a bit of time together, building trust, learning about each other, and finding little opportunities to set them up for success.

I think sometimes we underestimate how much good training happens when it doesn’t look much like training at all.

Especially with babies, there’s so much value in simply making their early experiences with new people and places pleasant, predictable, and easy to understand.

We’ve got plenty of time for the other stuff. 🥰

The magic of going with your gut.Or perhaps, the results of being stubborn AF…?Sometimes? You’ll see something in a hors...
10/17/2026

The magic of going with your gut.

Or perhaps, the results of being stubborn AF…?

Sometimes? You’ll see something in a horse that other people don’t see.

Often, it’s easy for people on the outside to spot the reasons why not.

But if they were on the inside, they might see the reasons why.

I think about this often, really.

Because horses are funny that way.

Sometimes the one that doesn’t immediately impress anyone is the one you find yourself getting more and more excited about.

Maybe they aren’t the fanciest mover. Maybe their conformation isn’t quite what everyone would choose. Maybe they’re a little average, a little challenging, or just not the sort of horse that makes people stop in their tracks.

And, unsurprisingly, *everyone* else is perfectly capable of pointing those things out.

But they don’t necessarily know what you know.

They haven’t felt the way that horse tries to figure out a difficult question. They haven’t experienced the little ✨ je ne sais quoi ✨ moments that you have. They haven’t watched the confidence slowly develop or seen how much the horse changes when they finally understand what you’re asking.

They haven’t experienced the little moments that make you think, there’s something really good in here.

And sometimes those little moments tell you more about the horse’s future than the things that are immediately obvious to everyone else.

I think there’s a particular kind of satisfaction in developing a horse that you believed in before there was overwhelming evidence to convince anyone else.

Not because you want to prove everyone wrong.

But because you get to watch the horse slowly become the version of themselves that you suspected was there all along.

Of course, there’s a difference between having conviction and being unwilling to acknowledge reality.

Not every horse is secretly a Grand Prix horse. Not every limitation can be trained away, and wanting something badly enough doesn’t automatically make it possible.

Sometimes the people pointing out the reasons why not are absolutely right about those reasons.

They just might not be right about what those reasons mean for the horse’s future.

Because a horse doesn’t have to be perfect to be worth believing in.

And sometimes the thing you see isn’t extraordinary talent at all.

Sometimes it’s the brain. The work ethic. The kindness. The willingness to keep trying.

Things that might not make for a particularly impressive first impression, but can make for a pretty extraordinary horse over time.

I think we have to be willing to listen to other people’s observations without automatically allowing their opinions to become our conclusions.

Be open to being wrong. Be willing to change your plans. Be realistic about the horse in front of you.

But don’t be so easily persuaded by what other people see from the outside that you forget to trust what you’ve learned from the inside.

Sometimes you’re going to be wrong.

And sometimes?

You’re going to be really, really glad you were stubborn AF. ❤️

10/11/2026

The art of not complaining.

I think this might be a dying art.

If you want to get better at this whole “horses” thing, and your bank account doesn’t particularly resemble Bill Gates’, you’re probably going to have to scrap for it a little bit.

You’re going to have to seek out opportunities, ask questions, volunteer your time, work with horses that aren’t necessarily your dream horse, and occasionally do things that aren’t particularly glamorous in pursuit of getting better.

And when one of those really cool learning opportunities comes along?

Here are some good ideas.

Be PROFUSELY appreciative.

Be an attentive learner.

Be a trier.

Some bad ideas?

Complaining about the horse you were offered the opportunity to learn from.

Making it abundantly clear that you think you’re too good for the horse you get to work with.

Spending more time explaining why the circumstances aren’t ideal than figuring out what you can learn from them.

Because here’s the thing.

The best horsemen can learn from EVERY. SINGLE. HORSE.

The fancy one, the plain one, the talented one, the difficult one, the big one, the small one, the old one, the one with a spectacular trot, and the one without.

Whether you’re riding, working on the ground, or simply handling a horse, there is ALWAYS something to learn.

And frankly, if you can only learn something when you’re working with a horse that’s already exceptional and perfectly suited to you, I might suggest that you have considerably more learning to do than you realize.

You don’t have to love every horse or feel like every opportunity is exactly what you hoped for.

But you can recognize the difference between an opportunity that isn’t what you perhaps dreamed of and one that isn’t valuable.

And you ought to have the good manners to appreciate the people and horses who made it possible.

People notice how you behave when the opportunity isn’t exactly what you wanted.

And sometimes that attitude determines whether anyone is ever going to offer you another.

Be grateful. Be curious. Be willing to try.

And for heaven’s sake, learn something from the horse you have the privilege of working with.

Most people? They don’t need a specialist of a horse.In fact, I think some of the people I see having the MOST fun with ...
10/09/2026

Most people? They don’t need a specialist of a horse.

In fact, I think some of the people I see having the MOST fun with their horses have horses that are perhaps above average at a few things, but aren’t necessarily world beaters at any one thing.

They’re just plenty good enough to go out and enjoy doing a whole lot of different things.

Motion Granted, aka Mouse 🐭, embodies this to me.

While the dressage sport horse breeding judges may not feel particularly inclined to reach for the 9s when Mouse goes around the Materiale ring, they do reach for the 7s!

And a 7 is, quite literally, FAIRLY GOOD!

But you know what else Mouse has been fairly good at?

Hunter paces, costume classes, Young Pony Hunter Championships, jumper derbies, and now, as of this week…

Part Friesian Walk Jog Western Pleasure National Champion. 🤪🏆

I think sometimes we get so caught up in finding horses that are exceptional at one particular thing that we forget just how much fun there is to be had with a horse who is pretty darn good at a whole bunch of things.

There is absolutely a place for specialists, and I love a horse bred and developed to excel at a particular job.

But most people aren’t trying to go to the Olympics. They’re trying to have a really wonderful time owning and enjoying their horse.

And there is an awful lot to be said for a horse who can go to a dressage show one weekend, jump some fences the next, participate in a costume class, and apparently collect a Western Pleasure national championship somewhere along the way. 😂

Maybe the best horse for you isn’t the one who can do one thing extraordinarily well.

Maybe it’s the one who can do a whole lot of things well enough that you never run out of fun things to do together.

Long live the versatile, fairly good at everything, EXCEPTIONALLY fun horses. ❤️

If you have a young horse you’re hoping to have started under saddle in 2027, the time to reach out is… now! 🐴As crazy a...
10/07/2026

If you have a young horse you’re hoping to have started under saddle in 2027, the time to reach out is… now! 🐴

As crazy as it seems, I already have around ten youngsters coming planning to come in to be started next year, with some planned as far out as Fall of 2027!

I know it feels a little ridiculous to be making plans that far in advance, but in order to give each horse the time, attention, and thoughtful start they deserve I have to space them out and time their starts according to their individual goals for the year.

So, if you have a youngster you’re considering sending here next year, please reach out sooner rather than later! If your dates are flexible or you’re still figuring out exactly what you want, I’m happy to talk through options and get you on my radar.

I’m so excited about the group of young horses already on the calendar for 2027, and incredibly grateful to the owners trusting me with such an important part of their horses’ education. ❤️

Signs fall has officially arrived at the barn 🍂1. Nobody knows what blanket to put on, when to put it on, or whether a b...
10/06/2026

Signs fall has officially arrived at the barn 🍂

1. Nobody knows what blanket to put on, when to put it on, or whether a blanket should be involved at all. It’s 78° this afternoon and 43° by dawn tomorrow. Godspeed.
2. Crunchy leaves have almost cost you your life at least once. Your horse has clearly never seen leaves before. Especially if they’re blowing across the ground.
3. You dressed perfectly for the temperature at 7 AM and are deeply regretting every layer by 11.
4. The horses are beginning their annual transformation from sleek athletes into woolly yaks.
5. You have said “WOW, it is already dark?!”

Happy fall, horse people. 🍁😂

There is no “re-starting” a horse.I hear the term a lot.A horse had a poor or traumatic start under saddle, so someone d...
10/05/2026

There is no “re-starting” a horse.

I hear the term a lot.

A horse had a poor or traumatic start under saddle, so someone decides to turn them out for six months or a year, give them some time to decompress, and then “restart” them.

And to be clear, I often think that is an excellent idea.

I just think “restart” is the wrong word.

You only get one start.

No amount of time standing in a field can make a horse unknow what happened during their first rides. We can give them time. We can change their expectations. We can build new associations and teach them that the experience can be different now. Horses can heal tremendously from poor training and frightening experiences.

But we cannot go back in time and give them a different first experience.

I think that distinction matters because it speaks to the seriousness of starting young horses.

And seriousness does NOT mean perfection.

A horse’s first rides do not need to be some magical sequence where nothing goes wrong. Young horses are going to misunderstand things. Riders are going to make mistakes. There may be awkward moments, spooks, confusion, days when things don’t go according to plan…

A good start isn’t a perfect start.

It’s one that respects how formative those early experiences are.

We should be thoughtful about who gets on them, what we ask of them, how prepared they are before we climb aboard, and what they learn when they don’t understand the question.

Because if it goes badly, yes, someone can absolutely help that horse later.

We can train past bad experiences.

We can build new confidence.

We can layer hundreds of better experiences over frightening ones until the horse has an entirely different understanding of ridden work.

But I think calling that a “restart” accidentally minimizes both how important the original start was and how much work goes into repairing one that went wrong.

The goal of good training after trauma isn’t to erase the horse’s history.

It’s to give them enough good experiences that their history no longer has to dictate their future.

You can train a traumatized horse.

You can rehabilitate their confidence.

You can give them a completely different relationship with being ridden.

But you cannot restart them.

You only get one start.

Treat it like it matters.

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