10/16/2026
Separation anxiety is one of those topics where everyone has an opinion, and a lot of those opinions quietly blame you.
"They're doing it out of spite."
"Just crate train them."
"Ignore them before you leave."
They oversimplify something complex, and some of them can actually make a dog's distress worse. If you've tried them and they didn't work, that's not a you problem.
On the blog, Ellen breaks down three of the most common myths, why each one falls short, and what actually helps: building choice, control, agency, and secure attachment so your dog can feel safe home alone, without restriction or guesswork.
Read it here: https://petharmonytraining.com/haunted-by-bad-advice-separation-anxiety-myths-busted/