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04/14/2026

Congratulations to Lee and her new horse Novel-T on their Championship at HITS Ocala Spring. So excited for this new partnership.

03/28/2026

This!

Riders often equate effectiveness with effort. If the horse is strong, we hold tighter. If the horse is quick, we pull harder. If something feels uncertain, we reach for the reins first.

“You have to add your hands last,” Carleton Brooks writes. That single sentence reframes how many riders approach control. Hands are not the first solution—they are the final refinement.

Riders are constantly trying to look smooth or subtle, but Brooks points out that even that can become counterproductive. “Or, the rider may carry their hands too low, sometimes trying to be ‘smooth’ or ‘subtle’ or ‘stay out of the way,’ which can become detrimental to the horse being light, forward and balanced.”

Quiet does not mean passive. Soft does not mean absent. Effective hands are supported by a stable body and an engaged leg.

It’s instinct. The reins feel like the steering wheel and the brakes. They’re visible. They’re immediate.

But if your reins are slack and you suddenly pull, Brooks is clear about the result: “If your reins are droopy or slack, your pull becomes a jerk.” A jerk creates resistance. Resistance creates heaviness. Heaviness leads to more pulling.

It becomes a cycle.

Instead, Brooks emphasizes preparation before contact. When slowing down, he advises riders to “try slowly letting out a big breath and settling in.” You are making a suggestion with your body before your hands ever enter the conversation.

📎 Continue reading this article at https://www.theplaidhorse.com/2026/03/26/quiet-hands-effective-aids-the-art-of-invisible-riding/
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