06/12/2026
'But I don't want to use treats forever'.
Or a leash. Or a baby gate. Or a mat.
If you've ever thought that, you're not alone. When you start working on a behavior, it can feel like the tools you use to help your dog succeed are becoming permanent.
The good news is that they are not supposed to be.
Think about what happens when your dog is learning something new. If guests coming into the house are exciting, you might use a leash to prevent jumping. If your dog struggles to settle when visitors arrive, you might use a mat. If your dog is worried about strangers, you might create more distance and give them time to observe.
These supports are not the goal. They are the starting point.
As your dog gains experience and practices the behavior you want, you can begin making the situation a little more difficult. The leash becomes looser. The distance becomes smaller. The mat is needed less often. The dog learns how to handle situations that used to be challenging.
The mistake many people make is removing support too quickly. If your dog is still struggling, the answer is usually not to ask for more. It is to make the situation easier again so they can succeed.
Learning is not a straight line. Some days your dog will need more help. Other days they will need less.
The goal is not to see how quickly you can remove the support. The goal is to help your dog practice success often enough that the new behavior becomes a habit.
Good training is not about proving your dog can do it without help. Good training is about giving your dog the support they need until they no longer need it.