09/29/2026
So here’s what is on my mind today and I am saying this on behalf of most every equine professional that I know. No one knows better than my husband and myself how expensive everything is right now. We both drive diesel trucks and we run a horse farm and he is a farrier. I actually feel bad when I have to raise my prices - but I have to cover my costs, charge for my 30+ years experience and learning, and keep the lights on. I hate that my prices go up but it has to happen.
The same is true for my husband. This man was trained by one of the best farriers in the area and constantly keeps learning and studying. As a result, most every vet around here knows him and recommends him when a horse requires corrective care or has a medical issue with its hooves. He has worked with one of the top equine podiatrists in the country. As such he charges more - as the saying goes “you get what you pay for” and with him, you get one of the best and most highly recommended farriers around.
What absolutely baffles me is that when a client chooses not to use him, or me, anymore they suddenly drop off the face of the planet - no communication whatsoever. Horse people are tough birds - I mean, we deal with 1200lb. animals on the daily. But yet a lot of horse people fail to be able to grow a pair and have a conversation with a service provider and tell them why they’re not using them anymore. Jeremy’s expensive but if you can’t afford him and need to find a cheaper alternative then FU***NG GRAB YOUR BALLS AND SAY THAT. Ghosting someone is the most unprofessional and juvenile way of handling things that there is.
If you don’t feel that you’re connecting with your trainer anymore then SAY IT. But first be honest with yourself. Did you really listen to your farrier, vet, chiropractor or trainer? Did you keep you and your horse on the schedule or training regimen that was recommended? If you’re only getting your horse done every 3-4 months and then complain that that its feet suck, that’s on you and no one else. If you’re not riding between lessons and then all you want to do is chit chat when you see your trainer again - that’s on you and not them.
Horse people are better at acting like spoiled teenagers than actual spoiled teenagers.
Be communicative. Keep your horse on schedule. Don’t call your vet and wonder why your horse is sick when you couldn’t be bothered to do basic annual care. Don’t wonder why your show/competition went poorly if you didn’t practice beforehand.
For ffs, take your balls out of your purse and use them!
Thank you for coming to my TED talk.