06/13/2026
I was sitting outside a coffee shop the other day with a dog when a girl who couldn’t have been older than eight or nine walked by with her dog on leash; and within seconds that dog spotted us, started barking and lunging and growling, and began dragging her straight toward where we were sitting. She had no idea what to do. She was holding on as hard as she could and was being dragged down the sidewalk, and it only didn’t turn into something really scary because a proactive human sitting nearby stepped in to help her.
That moment has been on my mind lately, partly because school just let out and I’m seeing kids and dogs in the same spaces way more than I was two weeks ago, and partly because I think there are some things that don’t get said often enough when it comes to kids and dogs.
Let’s take walks. Even if your dog is perfectly fine, the environment isn’t always predictable. A loose dog, a rabbit darting across the road, another dog whose owner doesn’t catch the warning signs in time; kids don’t yet have the experience or the strength to handle what can happen in those moments. (I was ten or eleven when my sister and I were walking our family dog and he got off the leash and was hit by a car right in front of us. I had to leave my younger sister with our dying dog to run to a neighbor’s house and called 911. That’s not something you recover from, and no kid should feel responsible for that tragedy, even accidentally.)
Dog parks are another environment I’d really encourage parents to think twice about bringing young kids to; it’s unpredictable by nature, and kids being loud, fast, and a little rough around the edges can set a lot of dogs off who otherwise might be fine.
If the neighbor kid is watching your dog, I’d love to see the parent hired with the kiddo coming along to learn. Drop-in care especially carries real safety concerns even for adults, and it’s just a lot to put on a child unsupervised.
And if you’re teaching your kid to ask before petting someone else’s dog, please keep doing that. Just make sure they’re also prepared to hear no and be okay with it.
I hope the love in these is evident. I truly care about dogs AND kids. 💜🐾