10/21/2025
Positive does not mean Permissive.
I had to search for a new farrier for my drafts because my usual doesn't do drafts anymore.whwnever i search for a new professional i try to be honest and upfront. "I use positive reinforcement, I don't use punishment unless absolutely necessary, we are a patient barn. I'd rather pay you for extra time or coming out again than escalate things if its not necessary." Kind of disclaimer. I know i'm odd, if they don't like that it's totally understandable, we just aren't a good fit.
This disclaimer being said, safety of the people around is my top priority. I have kids working with my animals all the time, safety has to be top priority. So how do we balance the two? No punishment, all soft squishy positive training, don't the horses just walk all over us?
Nope! The horses learn from the beginning we have strict criteria for safety and manners around us and food, before we even get into the fun training. We don't just stand by while our horses bite and kick us and drag us around and think "i'll just wait until they behave so i can click". We set them up for safety, success, and hold them to high standards. We are kind, almost always, but that doesn't mean we don't have a strong set of rules and expectations for our horses. We teach them what we want them to do, we set them up for success, we build them towards their goals with steady growth so we can see problems before they explode, and we take the time the horse needs to become confident in doing the right behavior.
Of course, we also utilize guides like the humane hierarchy for emergencies. If someones health or safety (human or horse) is at risk, we do whatever is necessary to get the job done and everyone safe. If the horse needs medical care they aren't ready for, we get the job done even if force is required, we'll fix the emotional impact later. If a horse is putting someone in danger we will do whatever is necessary to get that person to safety. Safety is most important, but not everything is an emergency and we can have patience and do the prep work to make sure its a great experience for everyone.
Next post i'll go into those specific techniques to set the horse up for success.
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