10/19/2026
This is one of the most important rules to teach children about living safely with dogs:
When a dog is resting, eating, chewing, or in their own space, leave them alone.
Every dog needs a safe place that belongs to them - a crate, bed, quiet corner, or room where they can rest and know they will not be disturbed. This is especially important when a dog is eating, chewing a bone, sleeping, or has a toy.
Dogs cannot say, "I need space." They communicate through body language: turning away, going still, lip-licking, tucking their tail, giving a hard stare, or growling. A growl is not bad behaviour - it is a warning. If that warning is ignored or punished, the dog may learn that growling does not work, and the next step may be a snap or bite.
That does not mean the dog is "nasty" or "dominant." It means the dog felt pushed past their limit.
Teaching children to respect a dog's space teaches them something valuable: boundaries, consent, and kindness. Forcing a dog to tolerate being crowded, grabbed, or tested teaches the opposite - and it puts the child at real risk.
Simple rules help keep everyone safe:
Do not disturb a dog who is eating, chewing, or sleeping.
Do not go into the dog's crate, bed, or safe space.
Do not take food, toys, or bones away to "prove" anything.
Move away calmly if the dog looks uncomfortable.
Adults should manage the environment with gates, quiet feeding areas, or closed doors when needed.
If a dog growls, do not punish them. Change the situation so they feel safe again.
Children should not be expected to manage a dog's boundaries on their own. Adults need to set up the home so the dog has space and the child is kept safe.
If a dog has growled, snapped, or bitten around food, toys, or their bed, get help from a qualified behaviour professional and speak to a vet to rule out pain. General advice is not enough when safety is already a concern.