10/15/2026
Some dogs come to me with very clear feelings about certain parts of grooming. By the time we meet, those responses may already be well established. I don’t always know the origin story. I just know I’m the person helping them navigate the experience now.
This is Finn. 💙
Finn does NOT appreciate having his tail messed with. He isn’t a fan of having his front legs brushed, either. And sometimes, something that didn’t bother him before becomes a new frustration.
But Finn is a wonderful communicator. My job is to notice what he’s telling me—and listen.
Watch his body language in this video: the lip licking, the tension, the curling lip, the showing of teeth. With Finn, these are the signals I see before he attempts to bite. Those moments give me an opportunity to pause and adjust.
How I respond depends on what we’re doing and how uncomfortable he’s becoming. That can look different from one appointment to the next, or even from one part of the groom to another.
He used to struggle with having his face handled. In this video, he lets me work on it comfortably for the most part. The second he starts doing his Elvis lip we back track and restart. Next time might look different. Progress doesn’t always move in a straight line.
When he needs a break, I stop what’s bothering him. Sometimes we return to gentle petting, if he’s comfortable with that, and take a moment together before deciding how to continue. Experience has taught me to adjust my approach, change the task, or recognize when we’ve reached his limit for that day.
A dog Finn’s size, with a similar haircut, usually takes me about an hour and fifteen minutes. Finn usually takes closer to two hours.
That extra time is part of his care.
It gives us room for breaks, reassurance, and a pace he can better tolerate. Some fears can soften with time and trust. Others may continue to need careful management. Either way, his feelings matter throughout the process.
And yes, he gives me kisses at the end. Could those be appeasement rather than affection? Possibly. I’ll still take them—but I keep listening to the rest of his body, too. 💙
Successful grooming takes more than knowing how to create a haircut. It takes knowing the dog in front of you, recognizing what they can handle, and being willing to change your approach.
Know the dog. Learn the language. Let compassion lead the way. 🐾