08/11/2026
Fully agree with this as we need to go back to a little bit of"old school" horsemanship!
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I’ll let a horse flip itself over in a controlled environment before I spend all day feeding it treats for “accepting touch.” And before everybody loses their mind, no, I’m not intentionally flipping horses over. I’m saying I’m not going to panic and physically save a horse from every bad decision it makes. Sometimes a horse needs to learn from the consequences of its own choices.
If a horse decides it’s going to pull back, throw itself around, fight pressure, or turn a simple request into a full-blown production, I’m not interested in spending six hours convincing it that everything is okay. I’m going to stay calm, stay fair, and let the horse figure out that fighting the pressure isn’t getting it anywhere. Horses learn through pressure and release. They learn cause and effect. Sometimes the best lesson is simply, “Well… that didn’t work.”
I think we’ve gotten so caught up in making horses comfortable that we’ve forgotten the point of training is to prepare them for an uncomfortable world. Not every interaction needs to be softened, padded, and followed by a cookie. If I need to touch your ears, I’m going to touch your ears. If I need to handle your feet, I’m going to handle your feet. If you need to load in the trailer, we’re going to work through loading. I’m not asking you to love every second of it. I’m teaching you that you can handle it.
And there’s a massive difference between being fair to a horse and letting the horse dictate the rules. I’m not going to hurt you, I’m not going to ask you to do something you physically cannot do, and I’m not going to put you in a situation you’re not prepared for just to prove a point. But I’m also not going to let you learn that throwing a fit makes the pressure disappear.
Because eventually the real world isn’t going to care about your horse’s comfort level. The farrier isn’t going to spend three weeks getting emotionally prepared to pick up a foot. The vet isn’t going to ask if your horse is comfortable with being handled when it’s injured. An emergency certainly isn’t going to stop and wait for a desensitization session to finish.
That’s why I care more about teaching a horse how to handle pressure than teaching it how to avoid pressure.
Good horsemanship, to me, isn’t about making a horse believe the world will always be soft and pleasant. It’s about teaching them that when something is uncomfortable, they don’t have to panic. When something is scary, they don’t have to fight. When they don’t understand something, they can stop, think, and trust the person handling them.
I don’t need a horse that has been bribed into tolerating life. I want a horse that has been taught how to handle it.
There’s a difference between training a horse and babying one. And sometimes being the good horseman means letting the horse learn that its own bad idea was, in fact, a really bad idea.