07/23/2026
When I started out as a dog trainer and observed body language in dogs, my mentors would describe subtle movements they noticed in the dogs: the tail moved down, ears went forward, the body turned slightly, muscles tensed in the shoulders, etc. Literally, even as a professional trainer, a lot of the time I thought my mentors were making up things they thought they were seeing to make themselves sound smart. Turns out, I just didn't know the language yet. Fortunately I kept listening and watching anyway.
Over the years I've tried to learn everything I can about dog body language. I've attended conferences and workshops from nationally and internationally recognized experts, supervised hours and hours of dog play groups on my own and with my mentors, completed thousands of temperament evaluations on shelter dogs, and trained a whole lotta dogs on top of it all. Now I finally think I'm fluent enough to know pretty quickly when other people misinterpret body language and sometimes there are dire consequences.
I'd recommend everyone - dog owners, groomers, trainers, daycare attendants, etc. - recognize that what you expect your dog to be saying may not actually be what he's saying. Then start studying: watch videos from credentialed sources like the ones cited in this article; find an experienced trainer to mentor you; and most importantly, just watch dogs. Dogs at the park, on leash on the sidewalk, at the pet store, in agility and obedience competitions, the more you immerse yourself in dogs, the better you'll start to understand what they're saying.
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