09/07/2026
I have been riding more aware and extremely conscience of how & when I use my elbows.
Brilliant !
We all need help sometimes don’t be afraid to reach out for it.
In order to become a better rider, you will have to spend time focusing on your own body.
Many coaches and riders focus the majority of their riding time and energy on improving their horses’ movement, overall carriage and reducing resistances.
Ironically, many of the issues we attempt to correct are the direct result of a blocking or restriction brought about by the rider’s imbalanced or asymmetrical position. Often, when these rider issues are corrected, the resistance held by the horse’s body magically disappears.
Just as we train our horses, we must also train our own bodies, and in this way we will successfully improve both our riding and our horses’ way of going.
Hands and Seat
The rider should be well-balanced, elastic, sitting deep in the center of the saddle, smoothly absorbing the movement of the horse with his loins and hips, supple thighs with the legs steady and stretched well down.
The upper part of the body should be tall and supple. The contact should be independent from the rider’s seat. The hands should be carried steadily close together, with the thumb as the highest point and a straight line from the supple elbow through the hand to the
horse’s mouth.
The elbows should be close to the body the bends in the elbow allows elasticity forward and backward to follow the horse’s mouth every step. Remember in the walk and canter, the horse biomechanically has to move the neck forward and back.
Creating this elastic connection means that you’re not holding the horse on the bit—by pulling his head down and holding it there. But instead, you are riding him forward out to and on the bit.
Many people unintentionally ride with a straight or rigid arm. This causes a braced and backward contact with the horse’s mouth because the arm can’t follow the horse’s head and neck. If the rider’s arm is rigid with a straight elbow, all the weight of the contact is in the rider’s hands and forearms, and the horse can’t properly respond to the rein aids. With a straight arm or a stiff arm, you lose the ability to separate the rein aids from the seat and leg aids because the stiffness connects the arm and the body. This stiff connection to the mouth causes the horse to not move the neck freely forward and back and therefore, he can’t yield in the neck, poll and jaw.
The exact weight you should have in the hand varies from horse to horse. Some horses don’t want to take the contact, so you must encourage them to move into the connection. On the other hand, some horses are heavy and you may need to be more elastic so they have nothing to lean on. The contact may also change depending on what phase of the training session you’re in.
To find the connection, the horse must accept your rein, seat and leg aids. Use your calves to lift his back up. You should feel his withers rise and his neck drop in a relaxed manner. The horse should be on the vertical as he reaches for the bit. Ideally, you create a wheel of energy that gets pushed through from the hind end, over the back and to the bit. The energy travels around the wheel to be recycled again, so you feel that you close the leg and push the horse into the hand until you have a positive contact, which is enough weight to gently pull your arm forward but not enough to pull you out of the saddle.
The final US Cavalry manual was written by instructors who had first attended a year at Saumur and another year at the Italian cavalry school ( Tor di Quinto ). Here is what it says:
"The arms, elbows, wrists, and fingers normally are relaxed,
the elbows falling naturally in front of the hips. As
long as the horse is going at the rate, gait, and in the direction
desired, only sufficient muscular energy is used to keep the
forearms lifted to the proper position and to maintain the
reins securely. A natural relaxation of the arms insures freedom
and quietness in the use of the hands. Any involuntary
contraction quickly communicates itself through the hands to
the horse's mouth, resulting in a loss of that calm confidence
which the horse should always have in his rider.
i. The reins are held in either or both hands, fingers softly
closed. Backs of the hands are up and out at angles of about
30' inside the vertical.
(1) With the reins in both hands, the hands, with fingers
relaxed, are separated about 8 or 10 inches and normally held
slightly above the withers. The wrists are straight and
supple. The forearms, wrists, hands, and reins form almost
straight lines from the points of the elbows to the horse's
mouth. Sometimes, for corrective purposes, hands may be
carried higher, but they should never be carried any lower.
Hands carried too low give the impression of pushing down
on the reins and cause the horse to seek to escape the downward
effect of the bit on the bars of his mouth by raising his head
and thrusting his nose into the air. The elbows are carried
slightly in advance of the points of the hips. Their position
will vary from time to time in guiding or controlling the
horse; but, with reins properly adjusted, they should never
pass in rear of the hip joints. When riding with a snaffle bit,
maintaining a direct line from elbow to mouth is facilitated
if the reins are taken into the hands between the third and
fourth fingers rather than underneath the little fingers...
j. Good hands are impossible to acquire without a good seat.
Softness is an essential characteristic of good hands and must
be developed. Relaxed arms, which permit the soft and elastic
opening and closing of the elbow joints combined with the lazy
play of the wrists and fingers, give soft hands. As long as the
horse is going at the speed and in the direction and manner
desired, such hands smoothly follow the movements of his head
and neck while maintaining soft, continuous contact of unvarying
intensity with his mouth. Rough hands are unsteady and
quickly communicate unintentional impressions to the horse's
mouth, making him nervous and difficult to control."
The goal is to ride the horse out to the bit and have a round horse balanced longer in front of you and shorter behind you, as opposed to a horse who is short and low in front and therefore out behind.