01/11/2022
Myth Busting Monday: “If your plumber showed up with just a single tool to fix your broken toilet, wouldn’t you be a little suspicious”
Alright, full disclosure: this is a rant/vent post in response to an awful tik Tok I saw the other day. In that video a trainer (a stereotypical alpha, macho guy who’s “been training for decades”) has his dog, a cane corso, next to him wearing a martingale collar, a shock collar, a prong collar, a “dominant dog” collar (read: basically a garrote for training I guess?), and a slip lead. He proceeds to make the above analogy about plumbers and electricians, comparing them to dog trainers, and how if they don’t know how to use all of their different tools than that’s a professional failing on their part, and a “red flag”. Basically alluding to what he calls “purely positive trainers” (side note, I’ve NEVER seen a positive reinforcement dog trainer call themselves purely positive, that alone is a sign he’s talking nonsense) and that because positive reinforcement trainers won’t intentionally use tools that cause pain, fear or discomfort we don’t know what we’re doing.
Believe me when I tell you I wanted to comment back SO BADLY about all of the misinformation he was spreading. But if there’s one thing the last few years have taught me it’s this: strangers don’t change their minds over internet arguments. PLUS all that commenting would have done was boost his video and cause it to reach more people (thanks, algorithm!)
And thus, this post was born. I can’t risk boosting the video by arguing in the comments section, but I can say my two cents here.
Dogs are not kitchen sinks, or toilets, or electrical outlets. Sinks, toilets, outlets, they don’t have emotional lives, they don’t have trauma, and if you break one you can just run out and get another.
If a plumber uses the wrong tool for the job with a kitchen sink, you might break the sink. It might stink, might even ruin your day, but you just go out and buy another sink. Sad for our bank account, but not world ending.
If you use the wrong “tool” for the job with a dog you can traumatize the dog. You may get to the point where the dog can never recover from what they’ve been put through. You may end up with a dog who is chronically stressed, fearful, or even dangerous because they’ve been taught that they are not safe.
Comparing dogs and inanimate objects in training should be considered a red flag. Kitchen appliances don’t have the potential for trauma; our dogs do.