07/23/2026
Today while doing a training ride, I was thinking about how slow progress can seem. Soooo slllooooowwwww!
So often we as riders or instructors know where we started and where our horses started. We know how far we've progressed but others, either watching social media videos, seeing pictures etc..can be so critical and judgemental about what they are seeing.
What you don't see are the years of work done quietly at home. The struggles with confidence, health of horse and rider, finances, illness, lameness and so many other pieces that no one but you, your horse and trainer may know about.
Posting videos on social media is a new endeavor to me. I have gotten positive and encouraging comments, private messages thanking me for the content I've been sharing, how helpful it has been etc..
What does surprise me is how cruel and unconstructive people can be. I'm all about open discussion and even some constructive back and forth dialog. Key word being "constructive". So feel free to ask why, ask back story on horses or riders you may see on my page. But ask in a way the encouraged educational and constructive dialogue.
My challenge is, if YOU are one of those critical, rude commentors, share a video of you and your horse at a show, in a parade, struggling in a chaotic warmup. Show us how it's done! And if you can't, feel free to scroll on by while the rest of us keep showing up day after day, making ourselves better, reaching for goals that may or may not be attainable, developing a bond with our horses, having fun with our students, fellow riders and coaches. Not because we care about what the peanut gallery says but because we have a passion!
To everyone that keeps putting the work in and for my students brave enough to share their riding on social media, keep up the good work!
* Norton and Vivian who were the stars of our tense horse show warm up reel, having a beautiful, relaxed time at a show last weekend.*