Fingers and Paws Dog Training

Fingers and Paws Dog Training See my website for lots more details!

Helping people/families create a safe, relationship-nurturing home environment with their dogs through evidence-based education and positive coaching and training I am passionate about providing coaching and training support to new dog owners and growing, changing families through in-home consultations, public events, and webinars and seminars. My goal always is to create a judgment-free zone wher

e people feel safe asking questions and trying new things to achieve a new level of safety, communication, and relationship with their family dog. As a mom of two adult children, many rescue dogs over the years, and all the juggling involved (especially with a partner who travelled so much), I have bucketloads of empathy and practical ideas for young families.

One of my favorite topics, from the venerable Patricia McConnell, Ph.D. - follow her link for videos and play-by-play (s...
02/06/2026

One of my favorite topics, from the venerable Patricia McConnell, Ph.D. - follow her link for videos and play-by-play (sorry, I couldn't resist)

Thanks, Rescued By Training !
02/06/2026

Thanks, Rescued By Training !

This is the setup most of us were taught. Two dogs, tight leashes, face to face, hoping it goes well.

For a lot of dogs, this is overwhelming and sets the stage for barking, tension, or conflict before they have had a chance to feel safe.

There is a safer, more effective way to introduce unfamiliar dogs. Parallel walks give dogs space, reduce pressure, and allow them to build positive associations at their own pace.

I put together a free download that walks you through this process step by step so you can introduce dogs more safely and successfully.

Link to download below.

Wow, my colleagues have been busy over the holidays - lots of great stuff to share! Thanks to Savvy Canine & Equine Trai...
01/09/2026

Wow, my colleagues have been busy over the holidays - lots of great stuff to share! Thanks to Savvy Canine & Equine Training for sharing this about enrichment

Enrichment is NOT something you give your dog once a day.

Enrichment means meeting all of an animal’s physical, behavioral, and emotional needs to empower them to perform species-typical behaviors in healthy, safe, and appropriate ways.

It is not extra things you have to do for your pet. It is the everyday stuff that really matters: feeding, cuddling sniff sessions, or even just giving meds!

This is pin-worthy advice from Family Paws Parent Education. Busy parents need extra arms - THERE IS NO SHAME in incorpo...
01/09/2026

This is pin-worthy advice from Family Paws Parent Education. Busy parents need extra arms - THERE IS NO SHAME in incorporating gates, crates, and pens into your overall strategy, to ease your burden! Too often I hear that parents feel badly for resorting to physical boundaries, despite their stress. In fact, dogs figure out - often pretty quickly - that gates mean letting go of watchfulness and stress, allowing them to relax and even sleep without concern for themselves or their most prized stuff.

Dogs, babies and toddlers all need the ability to learn, grow and explore in a safe environment! 🐾 💚 👣

Management is incredibly important to help create this success! ✅

If the child does not have the ability to follow guidelines or regulate their emotions in the moment due to their age or other reasons like being over tired, there needs to be management in place to support success for EVERYONE!

When in doubt about the closeness or proximity of your dog, baby and toddler, space it out!

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Given that I don't make my own graphics, I love sharing sound info from my colleages. Thanks to See Spot Learn by Emily ...
01/09/2026

Given that I don't make my own graphics, I love sharing sound info from my colleages. Thanks to See Spot Learn by Emily Dustan for creating, and Choose LEAP for sharing so that I saw it

If you've been around dog trainers for a while, you've probably heard someone mention "the four quadrants." It sounds fancy, but it's really just a framework that describes how all animals learn from the consequences of their behaviour.

Your dog does something, and something happens as a result. If the consequence is good (from your dog's perspective), they're more likely to do it again. If the consequence is unpleasant, they're less likely to repeat it. That's essentially what the four quadrants describe … the different ways behaviour changes based on what happens next.

▪️Positive Reinforcement

Your dog does something you like, so you ADD something they enjoy (a treat, a toy, praise, a sniff, access to something they want). Because something good happened, they're more likely to do that behaviour again. This is the foundation of modern, force-free training.

▪️Negative Reinforcement

Your dog does something you want, so you REMOVE or REDUCE something uncomfortable, like releasing tension on the lead when they stop pulling or stopping nagging when they finally sit. The behaviour INCREASES because it makes the discomfort go away. This quadrant is often misunderstood, but it's still based on avoidance or escape from something unpleasant.

▪️Positive Punishment

Your dog does something you don't want, so you add something unpleasant, a yell, a leash correction, a spray of water, a shock from a collar. The behaviour DECREASES because something UNPLESANT happened. This is where a lot of traditional "correction-based" training sits.

▪️Negative Punishment

Your dog does something you don't want, so you take away something they like, you turn away when they jump, end the game when they get too mouthy, or walk away when they're being pushy. The behaviour DECREASES because they lose access to what they DESIRED.

All four quadrants exist in learning theory. They've been studied extensively, and yes, they all technically "work" to change behaviour.

But, and this is important, just because something works doesn't mean that's how you should do it or that it's the right choice for your dog.

Most problem behaviours aren't about disobedience. They stem from emotion, excitement, or skills your dog hasn't learned yet. When we focus only on stopping unwanted behaviour through punishment, the dog might learn "if I do this, something bad happens" but they haven't actually learned what TO do instead or how to handle the emotion driving the behaviour.

Research into canine welfare, stress, and emotional health consistently shows that methods relying on punishment (both positive punishment and negative reinforcement) can have serious side effects. They can create fear, anxiety, and aggression. They can damage the trust between you and your dog. And they often suppress behaviour without actually teaching your dog what you do want them to do instead.

This is why we focus on positive reinforcement. It's not just about being "nice"; it's about being effective while keeping your dog's emotional wellbeing intact.

✅We build training plans around positive reinforcement because:

• It creates confident, happy dogs who are eager to learn.

• It strengthens your relationship instead of creating conflict and confusion.

• It teaches dogs what TO do, not just what to avoid.

• It's safer and more effective for addressing fear, anxiety, and aggression.

• It aligns with current research on how dogs learn best and what supports their emotional wellbeing.

Can dogs learn through punishment and corrections? Yes. But their brain learns better and retains information longer when they feel safe, which is why we focus on rewarding the behaviours we want to see and helping them become more confident.
Training doesn't have to involve fear, discomfort, or intimidation to be effective. Your dog can learn brilliant things without any of that.

🐾Here's something important to understand…

When you're working with a dog who's genuinely scared, anxious, or overwhelmed, the four quadrants become less relevant. At that point, we're not really focused on training specific behaviours, we're focused on how your dog feels.

You can't teach a dog who's terrified of other dogs to sit politely when they're in a state of panic. You can't expect a dog with separation anxiety to settle calmly when their nervous system is in full alarm mode. It's like asking someone to solve a puzzle while they're having a panic attack, their brain simply isn't in a place where learning can happen.

This is where good behaviour work starts with addressing the underlying emotion first. We help the dog feel safer, calmer, and more able to ‘think’ before we ask them to make different choices. That's why fear, anxiety, and reactivity cases need a completely different approach than basic training.

The difference is in what we use intentionally and systematically. We don't intentionally add pain, fear, or discomfort to change behaviour or get the dog to listen. We don't use tools designed to punish or intimidate. That's not about being "purely positive" or pretending punishment doesn't exist in the real world; it's about CHOOSING methods that don't risk your dog's emotional wellbeing when there are effective alternatives available.

References

1. Herron, M. E., Shofer, F. S., & Reisner, I. R. (2009).
Survey of the use and outcome of confrontational and non-confrontational training methods in client-owned dogs showing undesired behaviours.
Applied Animal Behaviour Science, 117(1-2), 47-54.

2. Ziv, G. (2017).
The effects of using aversive training methods in dogs, A review.
Journal of Veterinary Behaviour, 19, 50-60.

3. Hiby, E. F., Rooney, N. J., & Bradshaw, J. W. S. (2004).
Dog training methods: their use, effectiveness and interaction with behaviour and welfare.
Animal Welfare, 13(1), 63-69.

A fabulous description of thresholds from Aggressive Dog
12/05/2025

A fabulous description of thresholds from Aggressive Dog

Proud to be a part of this wonderful community since 2012
11/28/2025

Proud to be a part of this wonderful community since 2012

Saturday, 9/20 at 2pm - register to join me for the amazing Dogs & Toddlers webinar from Family Paws Parent Education! G...
09/15/2025

Saturday, 9/20 at 2pm - register to join me for the amazing Dogs & Toddlers webinar from Family Paws Parent Education! Great info for parents and grandparents and anyone who cares for toddlers and dogs.

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Family Paws Parent Education's Dog Aware Parenting Membership is now available!
08/15/2025

Family Paws Parent Education's Dog Aware Parenting Membership is now available!

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Today is Launch Day for Family Paws Parent Education's new Subscription option! Check it out
08/15/2025

Today is Launch Day for Family Paws Parent Education's new Subscription option! Check it out

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Do you know what Grumble and Growl Zones are? Check out this great, free resource from Family Paws Parent Education
07/30/2025

Do you know what Grumble and Growl Zones are? Check out this great, free resource from Family Paws Parent Education

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07/10/2025

On Tuesday, I'll be the host for Family Paws Parent Education's July live webinar, ! This info-packed session is perfect for parents, grandparents, and caregivers of dogs that have a toddler or a baby approaching that transition. Come join me, or share with someone you know will benefit from this invaluable information

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