Fairhope Stables

06/12/2026

Did you know that horses can get many of the same illnesses that humans get. One of the most common illnesses is Equine Metabolic Syndrome (EMS) which is the equivalent of type 2 diabetes in humans. They can also get Polysaccharide Storage Myopathy (PSSM) which is the equivalent of type 1 diabetes in humans.

This means that for many horses feeding grass or sugary treats such as apples and carrots could kill them. Just like with most people suffering from diabetes, it’s usually associated with a fat horse but don’t be fooled because even skinny horses and humans can suffer from diabetes too so don’t assume that when you see a skinny horse it’s safe to feed them treats!

How does diabetes kill horses exactly? Well, like with people it greatly affects the extremities and in horses. The inflammation detaches their coffin bone from the hoof wall causing it to rotate and in some cases pierce through the sole of their foot making them walk directly on bone and get severe infections and die a horribly painful death. Next to colic, laminitis caused by too much sugar in the diet is the most common cause for euthanasia.

So when you see that beautiful horse or cute pony out there, be kind and don’t feed it!
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Saviez-vous que les chevaux peuvent contracter de nombreuses maladies similaires à celles des humains ? L’une des plus fréquentes est le syndrome métabolique équin (SME), équivalent du diabète de type 2 chez l’humain. Ils peuvent également développer une myopathie à accumulation de polysaccharides (PSSM), équivalente au diabète de type 1 chez l’humain.

Cela signifie que pour de nombreux chevaux, les nourrir d’herbe ou de friandises sucrées comme des pommes et des carottes peut s’avérer fatal. Tout comme chez la plupart des personnes atteintes de diabète, cette maladie est souvent associée à un cheval obèse, mais ne vous y trompez pas : même les chevaux et les humains minces peuvent souffrir de diabète. Ne pensez donc pas qu’il est sans danger de donner des friandises à un cheval maigre !

Comment le diabète tue-t-il les chevaux exactement ? Eh bien, comme chez l’humain, il affecte fortement les extrémités. L’inflammation détache la troisième phalange de la paroi du sabot, ce qui provoque sa rotation et, dans certains cas, sa perforation de la sole. Le cheval marche alors directement sur l’os, ce qui entraîne de graves infections et une mort atroce. Après les coliques, la fourbure due à une alimentation trop riche en sucre est la principale cause d'euthanasie.

Alors, si vous croisez un beau cheval ou un adorable poney, soyez bienveillant et ne le nourrissez pas !

06/01/2026

05/25/2026

This is one of my favorite quotes as a teacher.
Not everyone stays long enough to really hear what is being taught. This doesn't just mean staying for years, though that may be the case.
Let's face it: training horses and bettering ourselves takes the time it takes.

For the student who is prepared to continue despite the heartache and the confrontation with the Self on a seemingly constant basis—the one who simply continues to "show up"—there are rewards. It grants the ability to grasp something that is Real.
Something so worthwhile it makes the heart sing and enables a fractured relationship to reach upwards to a higher level. (And yes, I am still very much a student, too.)

At times I have felt like walking away, but deep in my soul I know that the trials are there for a higher purpose.
They are not stop signs; rather, they are our guides, showing us very clearly what needs to be done.

Are you up for the task?

It is a journey of self-discovery, because a true master never hands you the answers.

"The Teacher does not give you the truth. He gives you the method by which you may find the truth for yourself."
— Nuno Oliveira

05/14/2026

Who teaches Saddleseat lessons near Zionsville, Indiana?
 I have a student that is moving that way as soon as school is out.

05/13/2026

Riding student moving to near Zionsville, Indiana

who’s out there teaching in that vicinity?

05/11/2026

As riding instructors we spend a lot of time managing the gap between what new students expect riding to be and what it actually is. Most of that gap could be narrowed significantly with one honest conversation before the first lesson ever happens. So here is everything I wish every new student and every new riding family walked in already knowing...

1. Riding is harder than it looks
This is the one that surprises people most. Watching a good rider looks effortless but it is not effortless. It is years of muscle memory, feel, balance, and body awareness built through consistent work over a long time. Your first lessons will feel awkward and uncoordinated and that is completely normal. Every rider you have ever admired felt exactly the way you feel right now when they were starting out.

2. The horse is not a bicycle
It is a living animal with its own personality, its own opinions, and its own good days and bad days. It does not always do what you ask the first time and that is not always your fault but it is always your responsibility to figure out the communication. Learning to work with a horse rather than on top of one is one of the most valuable things riding teaches and it starts from the very first lesson.

3. Progress is not linear
Some weeks you will feel like you have jumped forward three levels. Other weeks you will feel like you have forgotten everything you learned last month. Both are completely normal parts of learning to ride. The students who improve consistently are not the ones who never have bad lessons but they are the ones who show up anyway and keep working through the frustrating ones.

4. One lesson a week is a start but not a program
A single lesson per week gives you exposure to riding. Two lessons per week builds skill significantly faster. The riders who progress quickest are the ones who ride consistently and frequently enough that their muscles and nervous system have time to develop real memory around what correct feels like. If budget allows for more than one lesson per week it is worth it.

5. Your position will feel wrong before it feels right
Correct position in the saddle feels deeply unnatural to most people at first. Heels down feels like you are pushing your foot through the floor. Sitting tall feels like you are leaning back. An independent hand feels like you are doing nothing. Trust the process and trust your instructor. The things that feel strange now become automatic eventually but only if you commit to doing them correctly rather than defaulting back to what feels comfortable.

6. The time around the lesson matters as much as the lesson itself
Grooming your horse before you ride. Learning to tack up correctly. Understanding how to read your horse's body language in the cross ties. This is not the boring part before the real lesson begins. This is horsemanship and it makes you a better rider than an hour in the saddle alone ever will.

7. Bad rides happen to every rider at every level
Including the ones you look up to most. A bad lesson does not mean you are not cut out for this, it just means you are learning something hard and doing it on the back of a living animal that is also having a day. Come back next week and it will be different.
Your instructor is on your side.

8. Every correction we give is in service of your progress and your safety
We are not pointing out what is wrong to make you feel bad but we are pointing out what needs to change so you can get where you want to go faster and more safely. The students who improve fastest are the ones who hear a correction as information rather than criticism and apply it without taking it personally.

9. Riding changes you in ways you will not expect
The patience it builds, the confidence that comes from communicating with an animal ten times your size and being understood. The resilience that develops from falling short of a goal and coming back for it anyway. The community you find at the barn. None of that shows up in the first lesson or even the tenth but it will show up at one point. For most riders it becomes one of the most significant things in their life and not just what they do on Tuesday afternoons but part of who they are.

If you are a riding instructor share this with every new family who walks through your gate. If you are a new student or a parent of one - welcome. You picked something genuinely worth doing!

What do you wish someone had told you before your very first riding lesson?

04/27/2026

Hypothetically…….. I’m being taxed on money I never made. Let that sink in.
If I bought my property outright for $60,000 in 2009
Now the county says it’s worth $246,000.
Did I sell it? No.
Did I make a profit? No.
Did I get a check for $246,000? No.
But my taxes jumped like I did.
That’s the problem.
This isn’t income.
This isn’t cash.
This is a number someone decided on paper — and now I’m being billed for it.
If my stock portfolio doubles, I don’t pay taxes until I sell.
If my income doesn’t increase, I don’t magically owe more income tax.
So why does owning a home work differently?
Why am I being taxed on unrealized gains?
A house isn’t just an investment — it’s where people live. And this system means you can do everything right, pay off your home, and still get squeezed harder every year because of a number you never turned into money.
You don’t truly own something if you can be taxed out of it.
This isn’t about “services” or “inflation.”
It’s about being charged for value you never received.
And people are starting to notice.

COPY & PASTE this to Your page, this needs to be on everyone’s mind…

04/03/2026

Things your riding instructor wants you to know:
1. This sport is hard. You don't get to bypass the hard…..every good rider has gone through it. You make progress, then you don't, and then you make progress again. Your riding instructor can coach you through it, but they cannot make it easy.

2. You're going to ride horses you don't want to ride. If you're teachable, you will learn from every horse you ride. Each horse in the barn can teach you if you let them. IF YOU LET THEM. Which leads me to…

3. You MUST be teachable to succeed in this sport. You must be teachable to succeed at anything, but that is another conversation. Being teachable often means going back to basics time and time and time again. If you find basics boring, then your not looking at them as an opportunity to learn. Which brings me to…..

4. This sport is a COMMITMENT. Read that, then read it again. Every sport is a commitment, but in this sport your teammate weighs 1200 lbs and speaks a different language. Good riders don't get good by riding every once in awhile….they improve because they make riding a priority and give themsevles opportunity to practice.

5. EVERY RIDE IS AN OPPORTUNITY. Even the walk ones. Even the hard ones. Every. Single. Ride. Remember when you just wished someone would lead you around on a horse? Find the happiness in just being able to RIDE. If you make every ride about what your AREN'T doing, you take the fun out of the experience for yourself, your horse, and your instructor. Just enjoy the process. Which brings me to...

6. Riding should be fun. It is work. and work isn't always fun.....but if you (or your rider) are consistently choosing other activities or find yourself not looking forward to lessons, it's time to take a break. The horses already know you don't want to be here, and you set yourself up for failure if you are already dreading the lesson before you get here.

7. You'll learn more about horses from the ground than you ever will while riding. That's why ground lessons are important, too. If you're skipping ground lessons (or the part of your lesson that takes place on the ground), you're missing out on the most important parts of the lesson. You spend far more time on the ground with horses than you do in the saddle.

8. Ask questions and communicate. If you're wondering why your coach is having you ride a particular horse or do an exercise, ask them. Then listen to their answer and refer to #3 above.

9. We are human beings. We make decisions (some of them life and death ones) every day. We balance learning for students with workloads for horses and carry the bulk of this business on our shoulders. A little courtesy goes a long way.

Of all the sports your child will try through their school years, riding is one of 3 that they may continue regularly as adults (golf and skiing are the others). People who coach riding spend the better part of their free time and much of their disposable income trying to improve their own riding and caring for the horses who help teach your child. They love this sport and teaching others…..but they all have their limits. Not all good riders are good coaches, but all good coaches will tell you that the process to get good is not an easy one.

*thank you to whoever wrote this! Not my words, but certainly a shared sentiment! Copied from my good friend Kent Swalla!