Painted Faith Equestrian

06/01/2026

05/31/2026

I only got a couple pics so far but our painting event went great yesterday!! A and S were a great help with the horses too!!

05/11/2026

YES!!! All of this! And if #4 isn’t possible, then make sure you are doing some exercises at home to help build and strengthen those muscles.

As riding instructors we spend a lot of time managing the gap between what new students expect riding to be and what it actually is. Most of that gap could be narrowed significantly with one honest conversation before the first lesson ever happens. So here is everything I wish every new student and every new riding family walked in already knowing...

1. Riding is harder than it looks
This is the one that surprises people most. Watching a good rider looks effortless but it is not effortless. It is years of muscle memory, feel, balance, and body awareness built through consistent work over a long time. Your first lessons will feel awkward and uncoordinated and that is completely normal. Every rider you have ever admired felt exactly the way you feel right now when they were starting out.

2. The horse is not a bicycle
It is a living animal with its own personality, its own opinions, and its own good days and bad days. It does not always do what you ask the first time and that is not always your fault but it is always your responsibility to figure out the communication. Learning to work with a horse rather than on top of one is one of the most valuable things riding teaches and it starts from the very first lesson.

3. Progress is not linear
Some weeks you will feel like you have jumped forward three levels. Other weeks you will feel like you have forgotten everything you learned last month. Both are completely normal parts of learning to ride. The students who improve consistently are not the ones who never have bad lessons but they are the ones who show up anyway and keep working through the frustrating ones.

4. One lesson a week is a start but not a program
A single lesson per week gives you exposure to riding. Two lessons per week builds skill significantly faster. The riders who progress quickest are the ones who ride consistently and frequently enough that their muscles and nervous system have time to develop real memory around what correct feels like. If budget allows for more than one lesson per week it is worth it.

5. Your position will feel wrong before it feels right
Correct position in the saddle feels deeply unnatural to most people at first. Heels down feels like you are pushing your foot through the floor. Sitting tall feels like you are leaning back. An independent hand feels like you are doing nothing. Trust the process and trust your instructor. The things that feel strange now become automatic eventually but only if you commit to doing them correctly rather than defaulting back to what feels comfortable.

6. The time around the lesson matters as much as the lesson itself
Grooming your horse before you ride. Learning to tack up correctly. Understanding how to read your horse's body language in the cross ties. This is not the boring part before the real lesson begins. This is horsemanship and it makes you a better rider than an hour in the saddle alone ever will.

7. Bad rides happen to every rider at every level
Including the ones you look up to most. A bad lesson does not mean you are not cut out for this, it just means you are learning something hard and doing it on the back of a living animal that is also having a day. Come back next week and it will be different.
Your instructor is on your side.

8. Every correction we give is in service of your progress and your safety
We are not pointing out what is wrong to make you feel bad but we are pointing out what needs to change so you can get where you want to go faster and more safely. The students who improve fastest are the ones who hear a correction as information rather than criticism and apply it without taking it personally.

9. Riding changes you in ways you will not expect
The patience it builds, the confidence that comes from communicating with an animal ten times your size and being understood. The resilience that develops from falling short of a goal and coming back for it anyway. The community you find at the barn. None of that shows up in the first lesson or even the tenth but it will show up at one point. For most riders it becomes one of the most significant things in their life and not just what they do on Tuesday afternoons but part of who they are.

If you are a riding instructor share this with every new family who walks through your gate. If you are a new student or a parent of one - welcome. You picked something genuinely worth doing!

What do you wish someone had told you before your very first riding lesson?

05/05/2026

Warming up is very important. Especially for the older horses and in the cold weather.

05/02/2026

Stormy was so happy to get out of her stall and have a good roll in the freshly drug arena. Check out the pile of dirt she made with her head making sure to rub in it good 🤦🏻‍♀️

04/27/2026

Dr Michelle injected Stormy’s stifles on Friday so hopefully she’ll be back to her sassy self shortly. Stormy is a light weight when it comes to sedation. She was drooling as Haley was holding her head. 😂 Video of her snoring afterwards in comments.

04/26/2026

I’ve had students that expected to get to run the pattern over and over. That is the LAST thing you learn.

I spent this last week at BBR Finals watching a lot of runs…

And if I’m being honest—it hurt my heart.
And my soul. It was physically painful for me to watch.

Not because people don’t care.
But because of what I kept seeing over and over again.

Riders with poor balance at the speed they were asking for.
Reins too long, so hands had to get busy.
Horses that aren’t truly educated yet being asked to run.
Runs where the speed was ahead of the foundation.

And horses trying their level best to hold it all together anyway.

Rein length is just one place it shows up.

But this isn’t just about the reins.

*Speed exposes every hole in your foundation.*

If the rider doesn’t have the balance and body control for that speed, they often default to their hands.

If the horse isn’t broke and educated,
no tie down, no combination bit, no piece of equipment is going to fix that.

It just makes the horse tighter… stiffer… duller… and *sore.*

What I saw this week is a preparation problem.

Horse preparation.
Rider preparation.

And yes—horse care.

A trained eye can see the difference in horses that are truly cared for—
in their bodies,
in how they move,
in how long they can stay sound doing this job.

Some of these horses need better groceries.
Some need better maintenance.
All of them need a rider who is willing to get better for them.

And here’s the part that matters most—

You cannot do this alone.

If you are not taking lessons, going to clinics, asking questions, putting yourself in a position to learn, and working on your own balance and timing…your horse is the one paying for that.

Most people don’t mean to fail their horse.
They’re here because they love this sport.
They love their horse, and they enjoy doing this.

But good intention doesn’t replace proper preparation.

Good horsemanship shows up in the fundamentals.
In the slow work.
In the feel.
In the timing.

Not in how fast you can run before those things are in place.

The horses are trying.

And they absolutely deserve better from us.

04/22/2026

Shark loves to follow the kids around for pets. Unfortunately, he tries to return the scratches sometimes though. Not fun now that we aren’t wearing coats! 😂

04/20/2026

I swear it never ends! 🤪 Let’s see those shedding ponies.