06/12/2026
I am almost 62 - in a month ish. So I kinda of think maybe I shouldn’t be riding young horses or eventing. Especially since my 2021 accident left permanent damage. But the love of horse is strong and my time is my time. So I didn’t plan it but let’s see how it goes with baby horse, Ark and hopefully Queen if she is still up for it. Back to competition again. Please wish me luck I need confirmation of my insanity.
Here is another great piece from Equimotional Performance Coaching
There was a time I thought everyone else had the map.
Everyone else seemed to know exactly what they were doing. How to be the perfect mum. The perfect wife. The perfect rider. The perfect business owner.
Meanwhile, I was over here winging it with a coffee in one hand, horse hair on my clothes, and approximately 47 tabs open in my brain. 🤣
The truth is, most of the biggest things in my life didn't happen because I had a perfect plan.
I didn't know exactly how I was going to become a counsellor. I didn't know how to build a business. I didn't know if I'd ever achieve some of the things I've done with horses.
I just took the next step. And then the next one.
Sometimes confidence doesn't come first.
Sometimes courage looks like saying: "I'm scared, but I'm doing it anyway."
You don't need to have the whole route mapped out. You don't need permission. You don't need to wait until you're ready.
Because the secret is...
Most people aren't ready.
They just decide that staying where they are is more uncomfortable than moving forward.
So if there's something calling you, nudging you, sitting in the back of your mind...
Maybe today is the day you stop waiting for certainty and start trusting yourself instead.
One life. One chance. A lot of learning along the way.
And sometimes the magic starts the moment you say...
"Sod it. Let's see what happens." ✨🐴💛
Gary Angie Francart