02/03/2026
To the lady in the park whose dog was running wildly out of control, chasing squirrels and running up to every dog…
I saw you. I saw you struggling to recall your dog. I saw you calling his name, varying your tone from encouraging and squeaky to furious and frustrated. I saw you go to your car to find a crinkly packet that might sound like treats. I heard you try and recall him for 15 minutes while he ran around the carpark and onto the road. I saw your struggle. I do not judge your struggle.
I did judge you however for wandering around for 40 minutes prior to this game, on your phone, ignoring your dog totally. I saw your dog get rewarded for the behaviour he did with the freedoms he had. I saw the pattern developing as he roamed further and further causing more havoc while you ignored him, focussing on your phone.
The only time you engaged with your dog, was when you wanted to leave. Understandably after having 40 minutes of fun that had nothing to do with you, your dog didn’t want to leave.
I do however have a suggestion for you…
Put the phone down. Put your dog on a lead. Train him. He had a beautiful nature and was friendly and full of beans. He just wanted to have fun and be engaged with, but 40 minutes of seeking it elsewhere lead to your end of walk problems (and countless other problems for other dog owners while you ignored him)
A lead is a simple solution. Try that first. Be responsible. Your dog needs it, he needs you.
Edit: for those of you commenting, emailing and whatsapping me (yes really!) about how maybe the lady in question was dealing with terrible things. She was discussing, at length, the colour to paint her living room.
Why was I watching her for 40 minutes? Because I was working with a client whose dog is reactive and we were actively avoiding her and her dog.
Let’s pretend this was a life and death chat though… the invention of the lead still exists 😉