05/29/2026
We get a lot of queries about how to train pups/dogs to stop pulling on a leash, have manners, not run out the door, etc. It all comes under the heading of "good behaviour" for us. Our dogs don't have commands for everything - they just know what they are supposed to do and what they don't have permission to do. It's part of living in harmony. I gave a lot of thought to this and wanted to share some how-tos with you.
For about 40 years I trained horses. I was very lucky early on to buy some young horses from an experienced horse trader. The authentic kind you rarely see anymore... a crusty old man, missing a thumb, lots of arthritis. The first horse I bought from him was a yearling filly, almost untouched. Keep in mind I had almost no experience with horses at that time except for rental horses. He turned her out in a pen and handed me a rope and halter. I said, I have no idea how to catch that wild thing. His reply? If you can't even catch her, you shouldn't own her. Made an impression! Later that year he shared with me the most valuable lesson I ever learned about horses, and I use that information to train dogs. His advice was this: Learn how to control your horse without any gear. No halter, no rope. Teach it the basics with no bridle or halter or saddle. One day you may be in a situation where you need that 1000 lb animal to mind you, with nothing on it, or you could be killed. After that, I taught all our horses to give me space, stop, step away, back up, stand still, and come to me, all on their own. It did indeed save my bacon many a time.
Our dogs are trained the same way. They are never put in a collar as pups. I rarely even use a halter. They are taught with markers to focus on me and stay close, on their own. When they are on a leash they don't pull because they were not yanked around by their neck, ever. They do not jump out of the car until told it's OK. They do not walk thru an open door. They don't bite, chase things, or jump on furniture because that's how we live. Because we never gave them a command with no follow thru, they never learned how to ignore us. And paying attention to us always brought them good things. Think about this next time you get a new pup or even with the dog you have now. Learn marker training and figure out how to have your dog be a joy instead of a pill. It's not hard, you just need to be consistent. It's so worth it tho!! Or you can always have Penni train for you. :)