08/24/2026
π¨ I want to talk about what a calm dog looks like. SO many people get it wrong, and it scares me to see how much people don't understand subtle body language. People see a dog sitting/laying on a a cot or a platform and trainers call it 'calm'. MOST of the time, they have not been given other options. They are frozen on this platform in fear of being punished, being shocked, being cut off from air, etc. They are never truly calm. They have tight lips, side eye, ears back, tense body/face, eyes darting around, etc.
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οΈ This is what true calm looks like. Mind at rest, feeling safe enough to take a short nap, trusting nothing bad will happen, zero force, etc. People think that positive/'force free' training means permissive. My dogs still have rules and boundaries, but they have been reinforced for good decisions so they know how to make decisions on their own (for the most part, we all make mistakes every now and then π).
πβπ¦Ί It is so much easier to have a dog who WANTS to do something rather than being forced to. Does it take time to build that trust and reinforcement history? Yes. Is punishment a 'quick fix'? It can be, but not one I am interested in given the risks involved. When you know better, you do better π