07/23/2026
Learning to Listen… Beyond Doubt
After my session with the rule-tossing doggo, I noticed a subtle shift in my sessions. Allowing myself the freedom of less “rules” and structure, my sessions flowed more seamlessly. Being able to connect “in real time” with the animal and their person was less daunting and added another layer of depth and connection to my sessions. What I didn’t know at the time was that there was another doggo lying in wait with my next big lesson. This time, the lesson wasn’t as focused on the animals, but more focused on myself and my own journey.
There are certain people in our lives who come to us for bigger reasons than we are initially aware of. Shayleigh is one of those people for me. Over the years our relationship has evolved to being both friend and mentor. When we first met because I booked a session with her, I had no idea I would one day be doing a session for her. And that this session would be such a pivotal moment for me and the work I do.
At the time that our session came about, I was struggling a bit with self-doubt and the clarity of the messages I was receiving. So when she asked if I wanted to trade services, I was equally excited and nervous. As I wanted to be sure that I did well enough to have something she felt was worth the trade. What transpired during our session was beyond what I could have ever hoped for.
In our session, her pup recounted a memory that held a lot of fear for her. One that Shayleigh knew all too well. But was prompted from her girl to ask about not because she needed the answers, but because she knew I needed the validation in myself and my own abilities. As we walked through this memory together, Shayleigh was excited for me, for the accuracy in which I received all the parts, and grateful for my twist of interpretation on the situation to help her assist her beautiful pup more.
What became impossible to deny as we moved through their session wasn’t that I could receive messages accurately. It was more about learning to trust myself. She was offering me permission to stop measuring my worth by whether I had earned my spot next to a person I admired. Permission to realize that I wasn’t there because I had it all figured out, but because I had something meaningful to contribute.
One of the greatest gifts from that session wasn’t simply what the doggo shared. It was experiencing someone I respect celebrate what I have to offer rather than compare it to her own gifts. Somewhere along the way I unknowingly placed mentors on a pedestal, forgetting they were once beginners too. That day reminded me that this work isn’t about standing in someone else’s light or trying to create a brighter one. It’s allowing your own to shine beside theirs.
I thought I was there to help Shayleigh with her doggo, but really, her pup was the one who was there to help me. To help me understand and to trust myself more. To help me learn how to loosen my grip on the belief I had to earn my place within the process.