09/17/2026
I go through waves in time where I notice all the names people use for their animals and moments where I hardly notice them. I seem to be in a moment where I keep noticing nicknames.
Have you ever paused to think about the name you’re using for your animal? Stubborn, crazy, lazy, bossy, sensitive. What if you stop and take a moment to say each word or “name” and allow yourself to feel into how your body responds when it hears these words?
Stubborn. What if he isn’t stubborn? What if he’s uncertain, uncomfortable, holding a boundary, or responding to something we haven’t noticed yet? Lazy. What if she isn’t unmotivated, but careful about how she approaches things? What changes when she feels interested, comfortable, or confident? Sensitive. What if she’s noticing more of her surroundings than we realize? What might we learn by paying attention to what she notices and when?
We don’t have to immediately replace the label with another explanation. Sometimes the most important thing we can do is leave room to notice more.
It’s easy to create labels or “nicknames” for our animals. It’s easy to get caught up in the moment and call them something other than their true name. What is harder to realize or notice is how that name carries an energy with it. How that name only describes one small moment in time. Or one experience. But the honest truth is that label doesn’t get the chance to capture the animal as a whole.
We’re quick to make assumptions on who the animal is based off of one small moment.
When we set the labels aside and allow them to show us the whole picture behind the actions, we can learn and see so much more than we might realize in the moment. It gives us the opportunity to allow them to show us their true preferences and the reasons behind them. Best of all, it leaves room for us to learn what we don’t understand yet.
What might you notice if you pause a moment the next time you’re about to call your animal a label rather than a true nickname?