Sit Stay Succeed Dog Training

Sit Stay Succeed Dog Training Relationship based in-home solutions from basic obedience to troubleshooting behavioral concerns. Certified dog trainer, CCDT, utilizing force free methods.

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You pass a dog park and see a group of dogs running around playing and you think, "Hmm, what a great place for me to tak...
09/04/2026

You pass a dog park and see a group of dogs running around playing and you think, "Hmm, what a great place for me to take my dog!" Before you go, though, here are some considerations to keep in mind:

Dog parks carry several risks. One of the most obvious is irresponsible owners. These are the people who sit on their phone, bring food in, don't understand canine body language, and generally ignore their dog while in the park. They aren't paying attention to what their dog is doing and cannot step in to intervene or call away if need be. They don't pick up after their dog when it defecates. They bring in dogs who are reactive or aggressive because they think the dog park will "socialize" them. They are either clueless or don't care.

Dog parks also pose a threat of injury and illness. If a dog fight breaks out there is risk of injury to the dogs involved, nearby dogs (if the ones fighting, or getting ready to fight, redirect), and the owners (again, if the dogs redirect while the owners try to break up a fight). Illness is also possible, as viruses and bacteria can be
passed through airborne droplets (think kennel cough or canine influenza), direct contact, shared water (giardia)/surfaces/toys (the latter should not be in a dog park to begin with), contact with f***s (think parvo or intestinal worms), or pests (ticks, fleas).

Dogs also have variable degrees of sociability - some may be extremely outgoing and friendly, some may only care for a select few dogs, and some may be reactive or aggressive. The latter should only be in a dog park if they are alone. And, they should leave if another dog comes in. The dog park is not a place to flood your dog with exposure to other dogs. Find a reputable trainer and work on reactivity in a controlled manner.

Dog parks, however, do have some benefits.

They can be a great place to exercise and play with your dog in a safe, fenced area. Some breeds and breed mixes need to be able to run full tilt every day, whether it is playing with other dogs or just doing zoomies because they are happy. The ever changing environment also carries many smells that are interesting to some dogs. Finally, dogs can dig (so long as you refill the holes). Running, sniffing, and digging are all natural instincts that can be enriched by going to a dog park.

Another benefit is, as an owner, you get to meet other like-minded people. Just remember to pay attention to your dog while you are chatting. You can set up future play dates if your dogs seem to enjoy playing together.

You can also work on training, but NOT with reactive or aggressive dogs, as mentioned above. You can however work on obedience with distractions, which is a major part of generalizing new skills. Just remember not to bring in food as it can be a resource that other dogs may seek to guard, thus causing fights.

If you do go to a dog park, be aware of your dog's size and behavior tendencies. Small dogs should usually stay in the small dog area, if one exists. If not, be aware that a small running dog can trigger prey drive in some dogs, and if it is a larger dog yours risks getting injured (moreso than if it were a small dog).

Don't forget to brush up on your dog's body language, and body language of dogs in general. This way you can intervene before a fight occurs or if your dog is generally uncomfortable or stressed.

Try to avoid peak hours. The more dogs you put into an area the higher the potential tension and large fights can occur, drawing in surrounding dogs. Going when it is empty or almost empty can help ease some of your dog's anxiety, if it exists otherwise. Also, fewer dogs means fewer opportunities for disease transmission.

Going to a dog park is, of course, up to you. They can be a great resource for exercise, but don't forget to balance your decision with the potential downsides.

This is just one way of teaching a "drop it". We use several others, but this is an oldie but a goodie. First you create...
09/01/2026

This is just one way of teaching a "drop it". We use several others, but this is an oldie but a goodie.

First you create the association between the cue word and the reward. You aren't asking for any behavior here. This is simple classical conditioning. After enough reps, when your dog hears the word and looks to you expectantly for food, you know the positive association has been made.

Next is the operant conditioning phase - teaching a consequence for a behavior. In this case, it is the food reward used during the first step. Try using a low value toy. Give it to your dog (let go of the toy) then ask for him to drop it. Mark and reward when successful. Repeat.

Then try tugging a little on the toy. Give the cue word, stop tugging, and then mark and reward when the dog lets go. Repeat.

Now try tugging a little more, and more, increasing the intensity of play. Cue the drop, mark, and reward heavily.

Next change the reward. Maybe a different food, maybe a toy, maybe personal play...just make sure your dog finds it rewarding, otherwise it won't work and the cue may lose some of its strength.

Finally, try this with other items that you would like your dog to be able to drop. Work your way up from easiest to hardest, and don't forget to mark and reward the successful behavior.

Does your dog know "drop it"?

This is a great graphic from Clever Canines Training that gives you a flowchart of whether or not you should leash your ...
08/31/2026

This is a great graphic from Clever Canines Training that gives you a flowchart of whether or not you should leash your dog.

Have you ever been in a situation where an unleashed dog ran right up onto you and your leashed dog? That can cause major issues, especially if one or both of the dogs are frustrated, unsure, or reactive. Just because your dog is friendly does not give you free reign to allow him to go anywhere, and do anything, he wants. People who own dogs with big feelings have the right to be out in public (as long as the dog is not showing signs of stress, of course) just as you are, but that does not mean your dog should freely run up to them. Best case scenario the dogs greet and calming signals keep everything peaceful. Worst case is one dog reacts, causing the other dog to also react, and then you may have a dog fight on your hands. So, just be aware of your surroundings and make good choices when considering whether it is the right time to remove a leash.

Some places have actual leash laws, so unleashing your dog is not even an option. The only dogs that may be unleashed in that scenario are service dogs performing a task (they are allowed to be off lead for the purpose of tasking but then must be put back on leash). Leashing your dog keeps everyone safe.

If your dog is showing any signs of distress, anxiety, fear, or any other stress signals then keep that leash on, determine why your dog is feeling the way he is, and respond accordingly (including leaving the area, if need be). This also keeps everyone safe, your dog included.

If you are in an area with traffic please consider keeping your dog on a leash. Accidents happen every day and you do not want anything to happen to your dog if they run into the road.

If you are in an are where your dog can be off-leash and there aren't any other considerations that suggest otherwise (like having questionable recall), then by all means let him go! Be sure you stay focused and pay attention to him (put that smart phone away).

And if ever in in doubt, leash up!

This is Quincy! This little cutie is learning several things, including going to a mat and settling. It sounds simple, b...
08/29/2026

This is Quincy! This little cutie is learning several things, including going to a mat and settling. It sounds simple, but truly learning how to relax in exciting environments takes patience and consistency. However, once your dog has the skill, you can apply it to so many different scenarios. A few common ones are: settling while you are eating dinner, settling while guests enter the house, or settling when you want to wind down and watch tv in the evening.

Does your dog know a "go to mat" (also called "place") cue? How do you use it?

Happy National Dog Day! Share your pups in the comments below and let us know what makes them so special 🥰 Mine are shar...
08/26/2026

Happy National Dog Day! Share your pups in the comments below and let us know what makes them so special 🥰 Mine are shared below ⬇️

🐾 Dakota (standing shepherd collie mix), Mya (sitting black gsd), and Kaiser (laying long coat sable gsd). Mya was just a year old or so, Kaiser was 3 or 4 and Dakota was around 8ish. They were my heart and soul. Dakota was my trick dog (and as sweet as could be), Kaiser was my obedience dog (and the best snuggle floof ever), and Mya eventually became a service dog for several years before retiring about 7 or 8 years ago (and she was definitely my shadow puppy). Both Dakota and Kaiser have since passed, and are missed every moment of every day. ❤️

Please please please research the breed before you get a dog and realize it does not fit into your life. Getting a dog b...
08/24/2026

Please please please research the breed before you get a dog and realize it does not fit into your life. Getting a dog because it is "pretty" or because you saw one on TV that looked "cool" are not reasons to just run out and buy a dog. So many dogs end up in shelters because the owners didn't realize what they were bringing into their home and could not handle the breed tendencies.

Dogs have been selectively bred for generations to express certain traits. These cannot be trained away. Some traits are: herding, pest control (think rats), hunting, protecting, guarding, searching, retrieving, and companionship. Do you understand what to expect for the breed you are interested in? What their normal behavior looks like? Do you understand how to give your new dog outlets that are appropriate for the breed?

When you see natural behavior, do you think you understand (but really misunderstand)it, do you just not acknowledge it, do you mismanage it, or do you try to punish it?

Natural behaviors are not a "problem" that needs to be "fixed". Is that dog, while expressing natural behaviors, compatible with your lifestyle/environment/family dynamics? Do you have the time, patience, and commitment to understanding what the breed's needs are? Can you actually provide the required mental and physical stimulation? An outlet for the natural behavior?

Breed absolutely matters. Behaviors that have been specifically bred for need to be understood. It is not just how a dog was raised. Genetics matter. Yes there are outliers that go against breed tendencies, but that is not the norm, and that is not what you should assume you will get.

We highly recommend that all clients invest in either an actual treat pouch or a f***y pack. In the winter, you can use ...
08/20/2026

We highly recommend that all clients invest in either an actual treat pouch or a f***y pack. In the winter, you can use an oversized sweatshirt with deep pockets. We do not recommend using the pockets of your pants or close fitting jackets.

There is a fine line between rewarding at the appropriate time and losing the opportunity for the dog to make the connection between the behavior you marked and receiving the reward.

Usually you have 3-5 seconds to get the reward to the dog in order for the dog to make the correct association. Of course, we prefer the faster the delivery the better, as the faster you get that food to your dog the more likely he is to understand why he is receiving it.

If you are too slow, the timing is no longer correct and you may end up rewarding for something completely different than what you intended. This can create confusion or your dog may even disengage and completely lose interest.

If your timing is fast, your dog will learn that the behavior they just offered gets them a reward - and because dog behavior is driven by reinforcement, your dog will start to offer that behavior more and more! Quick rewards also keep engagement high and keep your dog focused on the training.

So, instead of fumbling for treats, be prepared with the correct equipment. Training will be easier for both you and your dog.

What is your favorite training pouch?

This is Reba! She is approximately 3 years old and is a red heeler. Reba doesn't appear to have been worked with much pr...
08/17/2026

This is Reba! She is approximately 3 years old and is a red heeler. Reba doesn't appear to have been worked with much prior to coming to her new mom. She is, however, a very sweet girl and absolutely loves belly rubs We are going to work on engagement and building a solid, positive relationship between her and her mom.

Everyone say "Hi!" to Abby the aussie! We discussed several common adolescence issues today such as inappropriate chewin...
08/14/2026

Everyone say "Hi!" to Abby the aussie! We discussed several common adolescence issues today such as inappropriate chewing and housebreaking along with the importance of physical exercise and mental enrichment. We will also be working on proper leash skills and impulse control. I'm excited to get started with her and her dad.

Sometimes we hear that the training isn't working. So let's chat about that!Dogs work based off consequences. So, they a...
08/14/2026

Sometimes we hear that the training isn't working. So let's chat about that!

Dogs work based off consequences. So, they are going to repeat things that work for them. If a behavior you don't like continues to occur, then it may still be rehearsed somehow in other scenarios. A common example is jumping. You may be working hard on teaching an alternative behavior but if your significant other comes home and in greeting allows your dog to jump up and they gives pets and happy exclamations, then your dog is being rewarded for jumping. Because that behavior is driven by what your dog wants - attention - and your dog continues to be rewarded for it, then you will struggle trying to train an alternative behavior.

Maybe you aren't seeing progress because you are focused on the outcome - obedience - rather than what is driving the behavior. If we do not address your dog's emotional state, such as anxiety, then no amount of obedience will be effective until we can help your dog relax and think more clearly. Pain is another common example of something that can directly inhibit successful training.

In the same vein, if your dog is over threshold (overwhelmed or overstimulated) then learning will not occur. Address the "why" behind the behavior you are seeing, or, not seeing, and then you can work on obedience.

Dogs may require different levels of reinforcement, depending on how difficult the skill is that you are asking for. If you have kibble, some dogs may not view that as rewarding as, say, cheese, and may not be motivated to do what you are asking of them. Maybe your dog isn't food motivated? Well, there are other ways to reward your dog - you just need to know what your dog values!

Every dog is an individual and their training should be tailored to not only their breed but their individual personalities and temperaments. For example, not all dogs are suited for bitework, no matter how hard you may try to introduce the training. And as mentioned above, not all dogs will respond to the same potential rewards - you can't force a dog to work for a ball if the dog has no interest or positive association with the ball.

A commonly overlooked factor is whether or not all of your dog's needs are being met. Dogs require sufficient physical, mental, and social enrichment along with ensuring they are housed safely and provided with a good diet and clean water. If any of these are lacking you may struggle to see a change in behavior.

If too many of your interactions are focused on training, you dog may get burned out. They need a balanced life, with all of their needs being met as mentioned above. For example, that means interactions should include proper exercise, play, puzzles, stuffed kongs, and different kinds of training such as trick training.

If you get impatient and/or try to change the training plan too quickly your dog won't have time to learn what you are asking. They will also likely get frustrated. You have to teach at the dog's pace, not at the pace you have dictated. Go as slow as you need to in order to see progress start to happen.

If you do have progress but then all of a sudden see a change in your dog's normal behavior, a vet visit is warranted. Pain is a common cause for behavior changes so you may need to do a pain trial after your dog receives a thorough exam. If your dog is in pain, it will not be able to focus and learn.

If you have a reactive dog, or a dog that has experienced several stressful interactions in a row, you need to let your dog rest sufficiently so that the cortisol can be lowered. If your dog is always stressed or "on" they may be hyper-aroused and may go over threshold easily. It is very difficult to train a dog in this state.

As you can see there are many different reasons why your training may be stalled. Think through your current struggles and see if anything mentioned above may be helpful to your situation.

If you still have trouble, seek out a trainer or a behavior specialist. If that doesn't help, contact a veterinary behaviorist.

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