09/27/2026
Words to remove from your dog vocab in 2026:
✨ stubborn
✨ guilty
✨ manipulative
✨ spiteful
We tend to use “stubborn” when a dog won’t do something we think they should be able to do.
They stop on a walk, ignore a cue outside, refuse to get in the car, won’t come inside, or suddenly can’t do something they’ve done a million times.
But calling it stubborn doesn’t tell us WHY it’s happening — and it definitely doesn’t help us figure out what to do next.
Maybe the environment is too distracting. Maybe they’re nervous about what’s ahead. Maybe the skill isn’t as solid here as it is at home. Maybe the reward doesn’t match the difficulty. Maybe they’re tired, uncomfortable, or overwhelmed.
So next time your dog is being “stubborn,” don’t stop at the label. Take a second to think about what might be making that behavior hard right now and switch it up.