08/17/2026
Every (responsible) dog parent’s worst nightmare.
An unknown dog charges you from across a field or park. The owner makes no attempt to recall the dog but assures you “he’s friendly”. Or worse, they do recall and the dog completely ignores it.
I had originally intended this reel to be funny. But in all actuality, a dog you don’t know approaching you should always be considered a threat. I say that as both a human mother and a dog mother. And the wife of a dog trainer.
You don’t know this dog. Dogs are also unpredictable - especially ones without proper training. So what do I recommend you do when approached by an off-leash dog?
1. Make it clear the owner needs to call their dog.
Seems obvious but I’ll say it anyway. Put the ball in their court. Look like the Karen. Better safe than sorry.
2. Be prepared to body block.
Create space between your dog (or child, children, whatever) and the approaching dog. Use your own physicality to do so. Arms out, yell, kind of like you’d think of with a wild bear.
3. Be prepared to get more physical.
When it comes to avoiding a potential scuffle or injury, don’t be afraid to kick a dog to keep them away. It sounds cruel but I’d rather kick an untrained dog than risk a bite to my own pack. And remember, you didn’t create this situation, the owner did. You’re NOT the bad guy here.
I think Number 3 always surprises people the most, especially because I’m such a dog lover. But truly, I do not consider it “over the top” to prioritize MY pack over a stranger’s dog…especially a stranger who was irresponsible enough to let their dog off leash without having recall.
If you don’t want me to kick your dog, keep it on the leash or get the tools and training to ensure your dog’s safety.
Agree or disagree? Let me know in the comments. This is always one of my most polarizing takes, and I love to hear people’s opinions.