06/18/2026
Loving a dog and accepting a dog are not always the same thing.
In her latest Substack post, veterinary behaviorist Dr. Kelly Ballantyne shares a deeply personal reflection on her journey with her dog, Tonks. Despite her professional expertise and providing the best possible socialization, Tonks developed profound fear and anxiety that completely changed their lives.
Dr. Ballantyne opens up about the complex reality many caregivers face: the silent grief of letting go of the dog you imagined having, and the long, non-linear path to truly accepting the dog in front of you.
Whether you are navigating behavioral challenges, feeling the weight of caregiver burden, or working toward that sense of peace, this article is a compassionate reminder that acceptance takes time and that you are not alone in the struggle.
Read the full article here: https://insightfulanimals.substack.com/p/the-dog-i-wished-id-picked