10/21/2026
š«ā I disagree⦠and Iām going to be open about it.
A cat owner is considering putting their cat outside because of house-soiling issues. And to make matters worse, others are encouraging it, saying things like, āPut them outside. If they have claws, theyāll be fine. If the cat gets hurt outside, thatās the catās fault, not yours.ā
They asked my take on it. And soā¦š
I disagree. Strongly.
There are other options besides putting a cat outside. MANY options. Even if youāve tried several things, there may still be answers you havenāt explored yet. Please donāt give up on them.
I disagree that a cat is automatically safe outside simply because they have claws. Claws are not a force field. They wonāt protect a cat from cars, diseases, parasites, extreme weather, predators, or cruel people. Having claws doesnāt make a cat invincible.
And I wholeheartedly disagree with the idea that if a cat gets hurt or killed outside, itās the catās fault.
NO. Our cats depend on us. Thatās our responsibility.
When we bring an animal into our lives, we take on the responsibility of caring for them through the good, the bad, and the frustrating moments. From food and enrichment to playtime, litter box issues, and veterinary care, we are their guides and their advocates.
House-soiling can be frustrating. I understand that. But it can also be a sign of an underlying medical issue, stress, or something about their litter box environment that needs to change. There are avenues to explore. There is help available.
And to say, often times it doesnāt help the behavior! It can make it worse.
We canāt just decide one day that weāre done and tell them to āfigure it out.ā
They donāt understand why the home theyāve always known is suddenly no longer safe. They donāt understand why the people they trust have put them out into a world they may not be equipped to survive.
Our cats are not disposable. They are not problems to be thrown away when things get difficult. They are living, feeling beings who depend on us to do right by them.
They deserve patience. They deserve compassion. They deserve a chance.
And they deserve better than being tossed outside because we ran out of patience.
Please, if youāre struggling with a cat who is house-soiling, seek help before making a decision that could put their life at risk. ā¤ļøš¾
We owe them better. They trust us with their lives. š©š