Horse Of Your Dreams

Horse Of Your Dreams Home of the Ultimate Trail Horse. Our training program.produces safe, well seasoned trail mounts tha Our goal is to match the you to the horse of your dreams.
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Our Ultimate Trail Horse Training Program turns out well trained, safe trail horses. All horses must under go the thirty day evaluation before they reach the website. This enables me to make the best match for your needs. We have sold horses all around the world.

09/03/2026

At what age do you teach your foals to tie?
We teach ours early.
Once they know pressure and release, we use the swivel top patience pole.

I like using the swivel top as it allows them to move freely in a circle which reduces a lot of stress.
What method do you use and at what age?

09/02/2026

Are you a passenger or a leader?

One of the things I see on group rides is my horse will want to walk exactly where the horse in front steps. If he takes the left fork, my horse automatically takes the left fork.

Now some of this is rooted in safety. It makes sense to see where the horse in front goes, and if he negotiates it easily, that is indeed the best path.

But, I frequently will take the opposite fork when I can.

Why? To establish my leadership. So many times on trails we revert to passenger mode. We let the horse choose and follow.

But, we need our horse to follow US, to trust US. So, in order to keep them tuning into us, this is a simple way that we can re-establish our leadership.

So, what do you do? Do you take the opposite path or let your horse follow? What are your thoughts?

08/31/2026

I was saddling Dreamer at the trailer and he wanted to get in, so I rolled with it. Guess he prefers trails vs boring arena work like I had planned 😂

Does your horse pin his ears, lunge, bite or kick at other horses on a group trail ride?It is easy to label those action...
08/30/2026

Does your horse pin his ears, lunge, bite or kick at other horses on a group trail ride?
It is easy to label those actions as bad behavior, and they certainly can become dangerous. But before we correct the behavior, it helps to understand what the horse may be trying to communicate.

Horses use body language to control space and establish boundaries with one another. A pinned ear may mean, “Do not come any closer.” A turned head or quick lunge may mean, “Move away from me.” A bite or kick is often the louder version of a warning that was already given.
The problem is that we frequently miss the quieter signals.

The horse may have pinned an ear several times. He may have tightened his body, swished his tail, moved away or looked back at the horse crowding him. If the other horse keeps coming, he may increase the pressure until the message is finally heard. Then the rider says, “He kicked for no reason.”

This can become even more obvious in an unfamiliar group. The horses have not established how much space each one expects, who gives way or how each horse responds to pressure. One horse may tolerate another riding closely behind him, while a different horse considers that a serious challenge.

A horse that is used to moving others at home may become angry when a strange horse crowds or passes him. A more passive horse may lunge or kick because he feels trapped and cannot get away. Another horse may bite because the horse beside him repeatedly ignores his requests for space.

Understanding the reason does not mean allowing dangerous behavior. A horse still has to learn that he cannot bite, lunge or kick while under the rider’s control. But, it does mean that the riders should also pay attention.
Give horses enough room. Notice pinned ears and body tension before the reaction becomes bigger. Do not allow your horse to ride on another horse’s tail and then blame the horse in front for finally objecting.

Have you ever had your horse act out towards another on a ride, what did you do?

08/28/2026

A little Friday Fun.

08/27/2026

If you could custom design your own Jake Miller Saddle, what options would you choose? A splash of color? Fancy conchos? More or less tooling? Different stirrups? Love to hear your thoughts.

08/26/2026

We use the ledges here to teach a horse for to negotiate banks carefully and quietly. We want them to jump up and down both without stress or anxiety.

Many trails will have a spot like this to traverse, so we prepare in a more controlled environment first.

08/25/2026

A little Tuesday morning smile. Gertrude has a new baby.

08/24/2026

Do you ever ride on the road? What challenges do you face?

Do you and your horse prefer to be the last pair in line on a trail ride?Some riders love bringing up the rear. There is...
08/23/2026

Do you and your horse prefer to be the last pair in line on a trail ride?

Some riders love bringing up the rear. There is less pressure to set the pace, you can watch what is happening ahead, and you usually have more time to prepare if another horse reacts to something on the trail. If your horse is equally content back there, it can be a very comfortable place to ride.

For some horses, the rear may also feel like the safest position. A horse that prefers to avoid conflict may not want to challenge the horses ahead, defend his space or become involved while unfamiliar horses are sorting out their positions within the group. From the back, he can follow along without being caught between stronger personalities.

Other horses absolutely hate being last. They may spend the entire ride pulling on the reins, crowding the horse ahead or rushing forward every time the group gains a little distance. The farther back you place them, the more anxious or determined they become.

That reaction may also be connected to the social dynamics of the group. A horse accustomed to having more influence at home may be uncomfortable yielding his position to every horse ahead of him. He may feel compelled to move forward and reclaim a position that feels more natural.

However, not every horse trying to move up is concerned about status. Some simply feel vulnerable at the rear. Horses are very aware of separation from the group, and even a small gap can make certain horses feel as though they are being left behind. What looks like a horse fighting to pass may actually be a horse afraid of losing the security of the herd.

That is why the position alone does not tell us the whole story. Is your horse relaxed in the rear because he prefers to stay out of conflict? Does he become anxious when a gap opens ahead? Is he trying to pass because he wants a different position, or is he simply worried that the group is leaving without him?

Understanding the reason does not mean allowing your horse to rush, crowd or ignore you. The rider still needs to control the pace and position. However, recognizing what may be driving the behavior gives us a much better place to begin training through it.

What happens when you take your horse to the back of the group? Does he settle in and enjoy the ride, or does he spend the whole time trying to work his way toward the front?

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