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I feel this every day. “When did “it’s complicated” become an unacceptable answer. As this person touches on two potenti...
10/21/2026

I feel this every day. “When did “it’s complicated” become an unacceptable answer.

As this person touches on two potential causes, I have to say that both are symptoms of one main thing: Culture. The cultural change that has occurred has also lent itself to the idea that one side or the other is not just wrong, but evil. This developed culture thrives on being “right” through simple arguments that paints the others as not just wrong but evil and worthy of hate. Complicated answers require discussion. You cannot have long discussions and sharing of ideas, thoughts and more information with simple ideas that require adherence to one simple answer.

I see this in every level of culture. A lack of a sophisticated context and curiosity for what else may affect the subject.

The dumbing down of conversation. Who benefits? Not you. Not in any manner.

I teach complicated things. And it requires open, long and deep discussions. It seems that few wish to spend any time to learn deeper and more. This is not a complaint, just reality. Many of my students and colleagues, over the years, have cajoled me, begged me, gotten mad at me because I won’t join the mass lemming movement over the cliff into “marketing”.

My answer has been “most will never be interested” or”they are not ready and may never be”. For years I have heard “I don’t get it”, “it’s too hard”, “you make it too complicated”, “just tell me what to do when -“. No! You can go anywhere else and get those answers. They won’t be your answers, they will be someone else’s simple “how to”. It is easy to teach the what and how. All you need is modern marketing lies. I will not do that to you. 

This is not a complaining post. This is a definition of what to expect if you should choose to learn the subject matter I teach. I want to define exactly who we are and what we do so your expectations are correct. This isn’t the easy “how to do it” performative presentations you can get ad infinitum. It is everything more than that.

I hope to meet and work with the curious you, the unsatisfied people who have the sense that there is more, the ones that have a thirst for more knowledge.

Sometimes I wonder whether the internet is making us stupid, or whether we've always preferred simple explanations and the internet just gave us a bigger stage to show it off.

I'm leaning toward the latter. Although social media certainly isn't helping.

Take the Yellowstone trophic cascade. Please. I'm beginning to wish I'd never met it.

For years, we've been treated to the wonderfully simple story of how wolves returned to Yellowstone and practically waved their magic paws over the landscape.

The elk changed their behavior. The willows grew. The beavers returned. The rivers changed course. Cue the inspirational music. And wolves lived happily ever after. Except that's not quite ecology works.

So I wrote about it. I explained that yes, wolves influence elk populations and behavior, and yes, those effects can contribute to changes in vegetation. But climate, water availability, other herbivores, hunting, and local conditions also play important roles.

In other words, wolves were part of the story. They weren't the entire cast, director, producer, and special effects department.

Seemed straightforward enough. Apparently not.

Because now someone has interpreted my criticism of the oversimplified Yellowstone story as an admission that science doesn't support wolf conservation.

Wait. What?

How did we get from “wolves didn't do everything” to “wolves don't do anything”?

Did we just skip all the words in between?

And here's the funny part. Both interpretations make exactly the same mistake.

One takes a complicated scientific relationship and turns it into a conservation fairy tale. The other hears that the fairy tale isn't entirely accurate and decides the whole scientific argument must be nonsense.

Congratulations. We've managed to oversimplify the oversimplification.

But this isn't just about wolves.

We do this with politics, medicine, economics, wildlife management, and pretty much anything else that requires us to hold more than one thought in our heads at a time.

Someone presents a piece of evidence, and we immediately start sorting them into teams.

Are you for us or against us? Do you support wolves or hate them?
Are ranchers good guys or bad guys? Is Yellowstone a miracle or a fraud?

Good grief. Sometimes the answer is neither, or it's both. And sometimes the answer is that we need more information.

I know. How terribly inconvenient.

And heaven forbid someone says, “Well, it depends.”

Depends? On WHAT?

Apparently, we're supposed to have a firm position on everything, preferably one that fits on a bumper sticker.

But here's the thing.

Wolves can be ecologically important and still cause serious livestock conflicts. Ranchers can have legitimate concerns without every proposed solution being reasonable. Nonlethal deterrents can work without working everywhere, every time. Predators can influence prey populations without being responsible for every increase or decline.

And questioning an exaggerated scientific claim doesn't mean rejecting the science behind it.

See? Nobody's head exploded. At least I hope not. Or maybe it would be a kindness.

Human brains have always liked shortcuts. We look for patterns, draw conclusions, and build stories that help us make sense of the world.

That's not necessarily a bad thing. We'd never get through the day if we had to conduct a research project every time we made a decision.

But there's a difference between simplifying something so we can understand it and simplifying it until it's no longer accurate.

And social media has turned the second one into something of a competitive sport.

A confident declaration gets shared a thousand times. A carefully explained answer gets skimmed, misunderstood, and turned into an argument about something nobody actually said.

Sometimes I wonder whether people are reading to understand or just scanning for the sentence they can disagree with.

Because there's a difference.

Science isn't a collection of convenient talking points we can pull out whenever we need to win an argument. Science is a process of asking questions, gathering evidence, testing explanations, and sometimes discovering that our favorite explanation wasn't quite right.

Science isn’t failing. That's science doing its job.

And when someone says, “I don't know,” or “the evidence is mixed,” or “there are several factors involved,” that doesn't necessarily mean they're uninformed.

It means they understand the subject well enough to recognize how much they don't know. That's beautiful because I'm up for exploring more.

Personally, I'm far more suspicious of someone who has a simple, absolute answer to every complicated question. Especially when they deliver it in ALL CAPS.

Maybe we're not getting stupider. We've just become so accustomed to instant answers that we've lost patience with the work required to understand them.

Or maybe we've become so invested in being right that we've forgotten there's something more valuable than winning an argument.

Learning something. Imagine that.

So here's my question.

When did “it's complicated” become an unacceptable answer?

Because if we can't handle a little complexity in a Facebook discussion, I'm not terribly optimistic about our ability to solve the problems we're arguing about.

And for the record, wolves are still wolves. They're not magical forest restoration technicians, and they're not four-legged ecological disasters.

They're predators. Remarkably interesting ones. That’s just f()cking life on Earth, whether by divine design or evolution.

It can’t get any simpler for the back row who already left the room when they got to the part they disagree with.

If you made it this far. You deserve a gold star.

Your mind works to learn under stress. To learn a complicated subject the stress, the “not getting it” has to be in a “s...
10/21/2026

Your mind works to learn under stress. To learn a complicated subject the stress, the “not getting it” has to be in a “safe” environment. Otherwise the brain seeks the first answer that saves you from disaster. That is how we teach.

Your nervous system is flooded with opportunity during crisis. When emotional intensity peaks, your brain enters hyper-plasticity mode. Every neuron is primed. Your nervous system floods with dopamine, epinephrine, and acetylcholine—chemical fertilizers that mark active synapses for permanent structural change. This is neurochemistry at maximum potency.

But most people miss the window. During the worst moments, when the craving feels unbearable, when the urge is screaming, most people surrender. They choose comfort. But if you resist that exact moment, if you choose differently when it feels hardest, your brain creates exponentially more rewiring than it would during calm states. You’re not just making a choice. You’re rebuilding your neural architecture. The hardest moments aren’t obstacles. They’re high-voltage opportunities to permanently transform who you are.

Wednesday night at 7:00 pm Central is the next CHRI Monthly Short Course. Subject:Dogs and children. We will cover Babie...
10/21/2026

Wednesday night at 7:00 pm Central is the next CHRI Monthly Short Course.

Subject:

Dogs and children. We will cover Babies to Toddlers this month.

Next month Adolescents to early teenage kids.

As always 80-90 minutes of in depth.

Don’t miss this.

If you are not subscribed to the monthly classes, it is only $15.00 per month. Not a podcast to gripe. It is a complete class, always.

https://www.chrinstitute.com/monthly-class/

If you can’t laugh when your dog has a different idea than want you wanted it to do in that momentIf you can’t get on th...
10/20/2026

If you can’t laugh when your dog has a different idea than want you wanted it to do in that moment

If you can’t get on the floor with your dogs and just enjoy the connection

If you can’t have the best interest at heart with your dog, your client and their dogs

If you can’t show the special bond with any dog that walks up to you

If you can’t reach “that” dog

If you can’t pause and just enjoy the wonder of having a deep bond with another species of animal

If you can’t allow your “image” to be seen to be enjoying, not “in charge”, anything but perfection in your mind

Maybe, just maybe, you need to reassess your intent. Maybe you need to show more than a perfect performance. Maybe you need to allow for the other entity also having a brain. Maybe -

During Course IV this, past week, we were doing a walk and talk break from the classroom time (Bosch always lets me know...
10/20/2026

During Course IV this, past week, we were doing a walk and talk break from the classroom time (Bosch always lets me know when it is time (same times each day for years now).

We went down to the “tree yard” where I built some new agility segments.

At one point I had taken a knee next to Bosch. We were talking and I was pointing things out with him. He backed up and slightly bumped me off balance. It was a surprise since he has never done that before. With more than 50 years of JiuJitsu training and work I went with it instead of tensing up, and did an easy breakfall. No big deal, soft and distributed landing, practiced and used 1,000s of times before.

Bosch immediately whipped around, whimpered and went to the ground then crawled on top of me and laid to cover me while still whimpering. Someone caught us on camera as I assured him I was ok and to let me up. So the 3 photos are as he gets off and allows me to use his shoulders to brace to get up.

This is what I mean when I say we are equal partners. I’ve got his six and he has mine. Always.

I got home last night from almost two weeks being gone. I had to go to the grocery store later in the night. Since I had...
10/19/2026

I got home last night from almost two weeks being gone. I had to go to the grocery store later in the night. Since I had only had Bosch with me during class, I decided that Kate needed some work with me.

I would give her a 100% for working mode, placement, behaviors, etc. Pretty much perfect. As we were leaving the store I saw a lady lifting a black poodle into a grocery cart. The dog saw Kate and started growling and barking. Kate kept perfect heel with me and didn’t even bother looking.

I told the lady that she should take the dog back to her vehicle. I did not judge her or the dog, just the unacceptable behavior that was over saturated. I am not the ADA police. I cannot educate the willful. I can only affect what I can.

A few photos from the Course IV class that concluded on Saturday. I cannot say enough about how special this class reall...
10/19/2026

A few photos from the Course IV class that concluded on Saturday. I cannot say enough about how special this class really was for the students and for me. A really amazing in-depth study of training.

We didn’t have many photos or videos of the 8 days together as everyone was mentally and physically engaged at every moment.

I haven’t posted much over the past two weeks because I have been working. Preparing to teach and teaching Course IV. Th...
10/19/2026

I haven’t posted much over the past two weeks because I have been working. Preparing to teach and teaching Course IV. The fourth level of 5 levels in the study at the Canine-Human Relationship Institute.

It has been a great class. Truly a great class. Tons of deep learning about what training actually means, the what, how, why and resultants.

“a victory can recognize what we have achieved, while the discipline to keep learning determines what we become next.”

At this level, these people are invested in their learning.

Congratulations Riet Ottenhof, and Stacey Wall. Thank you to Karen Lee for participating, adding to and assisting in class.

End of day 7 of 8 in Course IV at the Institute. My dinner tonight at the Center. Chicken Caesar salad. I bought an Avoc...
10/17/2026

End of day 7 of 8 in Course IV at the Institute.

My dinner tonight at the Center. Chicken Caesar salad. I bought an Avocado to slice up into the pre-made salad too. Then I also had Cubed Gouda and Salami to munch with my salad.

Bosch loves a few chunks of cheese (after he ate about 2.35 pounds of cubed steak, NuPro and beef broth. His opinion about the Salami was either Gordon Ramsey or a warning to me not to eat too much of that!! 😂😂

10/16/2026

A tiny segment of earlier today. Riet working with Willow. Doing incredibly well.

Willow and Rocco were borrowed dogs for Course IV. Course IV is an 8 day advanced course which we use dogs in the middle 4 days in order to have practical aspects of learning. Training dogs is based upon the foundation you earn with them. The learning, training and communication never stops. Not for a microsecond. It is how we work together, not missing an opportunity at any and all times together

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