04/02/2026
Reactivity is a loaded term.
It gets thrown around a lot, and while we can make educated guesses based on a dogâs overall behavior, we donât truly know what weâre looking at until we see it in real life.
Both of these dogs would be labeled âreactiveâ
But the why behind their behavior is very different.
The first clip is Nessie (about 1 year old).
Her body language is loose, wiggly, and honestly a little silly. This is excitement. She wants to go meet the other dog. She can disengage fairly easily and once we create enough distance, she lets it go.
The second clip is Meatball (about 9 months old).
Much more intensity. Hard stare. Locked in. No breaking eye contact. This is not a friendly approach. While he does have dog friends, heâs also been in a few scuffles recently.
So whatâs the difference? It comes down to intent.
What is the dog likely to do if they actually reach the other dog?
Nessie would likely try to play.
Meatball would likely posture, escalate, or go straight into conflict.
Same label. Completely different picture.
And that matters when it comes to training.
For excitable, social dogs, progress tends to move faster. Thereâs less emotional weight behind the behavior. We create clarity: weâre not going to that dog, hereâs what to do instead, and we move on.
For dogs like Meatball, thereâs more going on internally.
More pressure, more intensity, more feeling.
That means more structured setups, more repetition, and more time spent working through dog-facing situations to build new patterns. There are no shortcuts here.
And something most people donât realize:
About 90% of leash reactive dogs we see are actually highly social. Theyâre frustrated, not aggressive.
But regardless of the âtype,â the goal stays the same
A dog who can regulate, disengage, and take direction even when things feel big. Thatâs where the real work happens.