06/05/2026
This one is important and I want you to really sit with it. š¾
If we reward a dog for lying down ā but they're still in a reactive, anxious, or negative state of mind when they do it ā we're rewarding the down AND that state of mind at the same time.
What we actually want is the behavior AND the state of mind that goes with it. So we wait. We hold the reward until we're getting both.
It takes patience. It makes all the difference. š